A VERY Different Question for the Ladies

I won't deny it, I have moments of jealousy and insecurity, then I gain control of those feelings and emotions, realizing I'll make a bigger jack@ss out of myself and then do something about supply and demand. Always have a backup plan and sometimes the backup plan is just as good if not better than the original. For example, as an NFL coach, which QB would you prefer, Tom Brady or Peyton Manning.

This past weekend, I was with my regular plan, but I also made a connection with a superb backup plan. Regular plan is on notice that backup plan is available. It goes both ways too, But in this particular case regular plan, was flirtatious with another, setting into motion the search and interview process for backup plan.

i was asked once "is my pussy the tightest you ever fucked?"

Hummmmm? Ok this is "A VERY Different ?" It's been over a year for me since I've had some , and almost 2 yrs since I've been in a relationship. But I do have some memory of discussing this subject with my last love "May he R.I.P." We were able to discuss things such as: What type of lover his ex was, How big her butt was, Her ability to give him a and make him reach orgasm, etc...

At first discussing this with him REALLY Pissed my off to the point that I told him he needed to go back to her. Being that I'm a optimistic person as well as a realist, I accepted the fact that I voluntarily had open Pandora's box. Therefore I decided not to let it get to me any more, and I figure out a way to use that negative energy, and bruised ego to my advantage. I got real creative, and I turned him out to the max! In fact, I took personal pleasure and pride in doing this! Needless to say, he and I never had a discussion about his ex, or their sex life anymore after that! The moral to this story is: "If you open the box, you best be prepared to deal with what may pop out! Or at the least You better know how to BACK YOUR THING UP EVEN BETTTER than what popped out! "...

I know this may sound cold, but if you can tactfully play a woman's insecurities she'll swallow the bait hook, line and sinker.

I trust that you replied

"Not anymore."

My experience has been that quite a few women (maybe not most) want to know how they stack up to previous partners. Usually they don't come right out and say something like "did she have a better ass?" Women tend to be sneakier about these things.

If you look at a partner and seriously think, I wish you had

Jane's boobs
Kate's looks
Jodi's ass
Michelle's pussy

or Dave's cock for that matter, you are may well be in the wrong relationship. This is different from having the odd pleasant memory, which is nice to have.

It is ill-advised to give an objective opinion which can only be taken subjectively.

Wow thanks to all guys and gals for the great responses. A reason i suspect may also play a part is that guys are less long term commitment inclined. We think ill just ask some questions and when/if this ends ill have some "valuable" information about myself that i can use in the future. Whereas woman think well hes with me, he must love me enough, and will stay with me, so if i ask stupid questions like that it will be with us forever. And HE"LL ALWAYS KNOW IM INSECURE.

Thanks again people

I don't think so there, John.

The way Spladle flips back & forth through the genders/sexes, you'd think either he has a really good sex change doctor, or he's part african frog, the ones that changes sexes in a millisecond.