Sex drive.

Outside of a relationship, I will masturbate several times a day, and lean on my booty calls 2-3 times a week.

In a relationship, I want sex twice daily, and some time alone to masturbate too.

I have my cycls though, weeks when I have no interest in sex. Afterward, my libido is restored, sometimes, too well restored.

Hah. Just one of those little fables society uses to whack men over the head with whenever it's really needed, like in divorce court. As in, "they're all animals, you know."

All the GFs seemed to want it every hour on the hour. It was ridiculous, not to mention impossible. The idea that I might have other things to do - like, say, eat and sleep - never seemed to cross their lil' minds. I can only conclude that -

1. Something about me in particular drives them berserk. This seems extremely unlikely. Or,

2. They're like that with everybody. As the other possibility is farfetched, I have to hypothesize that this is it. Anecdotally, I can say that all that women seem to think about is sex, novelty food, and things I have to buy for the bathroom (mainly new towels and toilet-bowl brushes). I have found that these priorities leave secondary considerations - like, say, intellectual life - seriously circumscribed.

This is quite aside from those strange ideas shared by ordinary women everywhere - that small animals are dangerous (and I really really have to get rid of that mouse in the cellar), that the sink is no place for motorcycle carburettor parts, and that my stash of ammunition doesn't belong in the refrigerator (so why does it have that little light and all those shelves? I mean, really!).

They also seem to think that you need more than two pairs of shoes and that you have to throw your underpants out just because they have the odd hole.

And then they complain that we don't understand them.

My guy has a high sexdrive...
If i don't want to..I'll just say it.
And he accepts that

If i let him..
We fuck 10 times a day

I have a big sex drive. I can't recall me refusing having sex with a bf other than my first time (I refused, but he refused to listen... it was also the end of the relationship).
My sexual relationships were all good at start, but after a while the frequency dropped. My drive never changed though and it has been an issue sometimes.

I masturbate almost every day and jump on my boyfriend whenever the opportunity is present.

Ingrid

I remember reading somewhere ( granted I cant prove it but I believe it) that most women's loss of virginity was a bad experiance and /or date rape.

The latter is of course, an incomplete definition at best.

I am also a memeber of that club.

Men, if you read this, teach your sons better. I taught mine that a woman can get scared and say NO at the last minute, and that you ( he) must back off ten feet, and put away your equipment, and NEVER give her a bad time about it.

That's why good communication is key in a relationship. A while back, I got involved with one of my friends, and after messing around a bit, I realized that I had misconstrued the situation. She just wanted me for the whole physical thing, and I was looking for a relationship. Needless to say, our friendship was damaged by that and we don't hang out as much now. Talk with your significant other about your feelings towards sex, otherwise things can just get nasty in a hurry.

I am more of a ten days a time man myself.

a week without it? i get agitated if i go a day without it.

Well, I know for sure what doesn't work for me. For my ex, twice a week was pushing it and he wasn't really big on foreplay, so even that didn't last very long. I actually learned a lot about myself, my body, my erogenous zones AFTER we broke up. It started with the spontaneous orgasm I had reading the erotic Sleeping Beauty book by Anne Rice aka A.N. Roquelare (discussed in an earlier thread) and led me to some serious self-exploration. I am single now, and I love both my Rabbit vibrator and my shower massager - and try to spend some quality time with each several hours a week.

BTW, my ex and I broke up for other reasons, but I for sure believe that sexual compatibility both impacts and reflects other aspects of the relationship.

I agree with everyone that communication is the key. I have never been in a relationship where the girl has wanted it as often as I have. I have accepted the fact that my sex drive is higher then normal but it hasn't negatively affected my relationships. I think I would be more upset if the women I was with was "going through the motions" instead of saying she was tired. Not that i would complain to much. :)jk I am single now and would love to find someone that was compatible with me in that way but 2/3 times a day isn't realistic for most women, at least the ones I have met so far.