Male virgins around here?

Seems like me and LotlBotl are exactly the same :(

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I'm very similar to the first poster. I've had 2 girlfriends but broke up with both inside of a week and never so much as held hands. I'm straight, 19 and a virgin. It doesn't bother me all that much either. Oddly enough, earlier I was thinking about how it might bug others, but how I've been managing. Good friends, not in a war zone, comfy living and a family I get along with. Not too shabby.

I'm going to ship off to college soon, so I imagine that's where I'll get my first serious girlfriend and possibly lose my virginity, but I'm not exceptionally eager for the latter. I'd like to, but I think it's stupid that some people think of it as a race.

danglybanger: A virginal Rasputin perhaps? Check out all the articles about his mummified member in a museum. It's frightening/humorous.

I feel a long post coming...

I'm 20 years old, straight, and male. I lost my virginity when I was 19, to a fat (we're talkin...184lb) chick. Mad for cock she may have been, and wetness-wise and dirty-talk wise it was the best sex of my life. But I regret how far I stooped in that misadventure. I met her on the internet too, in a sex chatroom.

Lesson 1: Hold out, stick to some kind of standards.

I went to uni last September. Three days in, I had sex with a flatmate. The worst one night stand (only one night stand) of my life. I threw up over her, she threw me outside naked where I slept all night.

Lesson 2: Don't do one night stands!

A week (or two) into uni I met a girl in a club. She became my girlfriend. I'm glad for it, but she was the first girl I came across, first girl I chatted to etc.

Lesson 3: Don't take the first girl that comes along, shop around, and evaluate each item

My uncle was telling me, that when I move [somewhere] it'd only take me three days to get a girl. Therein however lies the problem...I need to be more selective. To be honest, although my ex (girl I met at uni in a club) was hot, with a great body and everything, I could do better...

I also recently met a girl from Myspace. Hot, tiny Asian girl. I thought 'yeah'. But I meet her and there's just no spark, or I just don't feel like making any sort of move or anything. I think it's because I went just for the sake of it, wasn't really into it. She could probably sense that too.

I also believe (hope) that something will happen when you least expect it to. Good luck!

And try talking to girls on the street! (not hookers!) Practice talking to women and see if you can get a few numbers.

Apparently, my penis is an obstacle to a decent blowjob! It all makes sense...

You are sweet!

I feel the same way and the same holds true for me! (Although, I'm gay,
already in college, and 'it' still hasn't happened for me yet.) :(

My problem is that I seem to only like straight guys!


Still, I'd much rather be a 25 year old virgin than a former 16 year old slut!

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Darn!

I was just going to tell Nomad, to ask "Wonderboy" how "Knight" lost his virginity! :(
Oh well, thanks for sharing it with us Knight, err, Wonderboy.

I lost my virginity when I was just about to turn 15. Looking back, it would have been better if I had a few more years under my belt. Because my body developed faster people thought my mind did as well. I was a boy fucking women and while it felt good physically, it drained me emotionally.
The pressure to fuck and be sexual in circle jerks was great in high school. I hope it has lightened up for guys today.
Jake

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Wonderboy is to be complimented for sharing his trials and tribulations as regarding the conquest of the female species.

Everyone has his or her own story to tell. Will we take the words of someone else and adhere to their recommendations or avoid their pitfalls? Some will, and then some will not.

Regarding myself, of who I can speak with authority, I was a sexual intercourse virgin until my first marriage at age 25.

Yes, I did understand the valid need to self pleasure. I knew how to masturbate very well. I decided to save myself for marriage. I, to this day believe, did the correct thing. Would I do my life over and remain a virgin until marriage? Yes!!!!!!!

I never did believe the "Grow Hair on my Palm if I jacked off too much."

Flaccid: Girth - 4 1/8 inches
Length - 6 inches

Erect: Girth: - 5 1/2 inches

Length - 8 inches

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Think yourself lucky. A school friend of mine is now 32 and still a virgin.

Hey, everyone I'm new. I've read that site, it's really quite interesting how they break it down. I'm RAFC(Recovering Average frustrated chump).
Dongalong, you said you learned all the moves before you got into bed, any tips on that(sorry, if not threadrelated).

Also, 19 and am like you guys. Done other stuff but not any intercourse. I think the main thing is just to be happy with yourself and not obsess over sex too much. Confidence is a great aphrodesiac(sp?).

26 and still a virgin over here.

But I haven't really done the right things. Which sucks, because once you get my age and you're still a virgin, your standards start to slip..... I'm no longer "waiting for the right person", I just want to get laid, goddam it.

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A 55 y/o guy here. I was virgin until my 24th. At the age of 16 I was with a girl that wanted sex with me and God knows it was the only thing I could think of. It had nothing to do with love it was just sex from both sides. We were both totally inexperienced and a little drunk. I was cumming before she was ready to take me in. I could not get it hard for a second time. I felt embarrassed after that. She told all her friends that I have a big dick and that I came too quick.
Eight years later I had super sex. It was my first time to penetrate and we both lost virginity. It was worth waiting that long, but I wished it had come on my path earlier. For years I’ve been afraid of making the same "mistake".
It made that I avoided many times to have sex at a younger age. I realized that it was more that I wanted to get laid.


What I want to say is that there is no special age for the first time. The only thing is that the older you get the more you are afraid of doing it wrong. Men don’t tell easily that they are still virgin when they have passed 20. Chapeau for all the guys here who are honest about this.


A few years ago I had my first m2m sex experience. Again I had to deal with virginity. "Anal" this time. I wish I had lost that virginity many years earlier.

It isn't the size that matters but the character! Btw the avatar is not me...

I am in a strong relationship of two years and have never had sex with my gf. i have a 6.5" flaccid cock and she has seen it but no urge

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Hey there, no worries

I first had sex when I was 19. I'm 22 now and in the past 3 years I guess that I'v had sex on average 2 times a week.

So all is not lost.. ur turn will come sooner or later

Don't wait till ur 30ies though

I was a late bloomer, too... didn't have sex until I was 20, or it might have been 21, even. And now I'm the envy of all my male friends.

So, your time will come.

You're sitting on a gold mine, Trebek