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I don't like hurting women myself... Anyway, I find most girls are against [video] pornography. I think a lot of girls are threatened by it which is silly... I have found though that women who

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Old 08-13-2006   #16 (permalink)
Wonderboy is offline

I don't like hurting women myself...

Anyway, I find most girls are against [video] pornography. I think a lot of girls are threatened by it which is silly...

I have found though that women who like porn prefer 'erotic stories' and most guys want to see the moving images. I believe it has to do with men being more visual and women craving the emotional, and wanting to know feelings. Although most erotic literature is badly written...

My ex was into erotic stories though...although she didn't want me to be looking at porn and whenever I would put it up (google images) as a joke she'd go 'Wonderboy! Turn it off!' etc...
 
Old 08-13-2006   #17 (permalink)
sares is offline

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I'm just being honest that his rough methods and the submissive females do turn me on, he reminds me of a primitive cave man...
I actually like these themes as well. I simply argue that Rocco does not illustrate these themes. he illustrates degredation, abuse, and physical danger.

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maybe it is my male instincts that are causing this arousal, I can't explain it.
I guess it's my instincts of self-preservation that's making me uncomfortable! I can't explain it.

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I can't stand SM where women are actually tortured
I consider a great deal of Rocco's portfolio to be torture.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #18 (permalink)
linus is offline

I am actuallly surprised to hear that some of the ladies like porn. When I watch porn I have a hard time imagining that any female would enjoy watching the vast majority of the stuff. The men are butt ugly for the most part, you see alot of limp or semi-hard dicks and most of the time there is no connection between the couples and it looks very fake. This is what irks me the most. I know I will sound like a chick when I say this, but I can't get into a porn scene if there is not chemistry between the couple.

Anyway, are there any guys in porn that you ladies actually find attractive?
 
Old 08-13-2006   #19 (permalink)
sares is offline

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When I watch porn I have a hard time imagining that any female would enjoy watching the vast majority of the stuff. The men are butt ugly for the most part, you see alot of limp or semi-hard dicks and most of the time there is no connection between the couples and it looks very fake.
yep, you pretty much nailed why I don't like most porn. that's why I typically go for gay porn or amateur, since it's less plastic and boring. and I have seen more genuine caring, passionate kisses, gentle touching, and real orgasms between gay men than I have ever seen in any mainstream het porn.

if there's a woman and I 'project' myself into her position I want her to be having fun. so when I see that (and real female orgasms... rarer than hen's teeth) I am overjoyed.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #20 (permalink)
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I actually like these themes as well. I simply argue that Rocco does not illustrate these themes. he illustrates degredation, abuse, and physical danger.
I guess it's my instincts of self-preservation that's making me uncomfortable! I can't explain it.
I consider a great deal of Rocco's portfolio to be torture.
I agree partially with you, some of his scenes are just ridiculous and make me go floppy! Like when he spends more time slapping the women and spitting in their mouths than actually having sex! WTF?
I think that Rocco has influenced the latest generation of male porn stars and because there is so much porn being produced, the quest to find something original in mainstream porn, seems to be overstepping the limits of what is tasteful/acceptable.
I think most guys would like to think of themselves as the dominant male that Rocco portrays but personally, I think the violence is unesseccary and I prefer it when he sticks to just having rough sex!
 
Old 08-13-2006   #21 (permalink)
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I consider a great deal of Rocco's portfolio to be torture.
I'm very ambivalent on Rocco's movies. He's done some great scenes for American movies. U.S. companies like Vivid won't have his aggressive stuff in them, although almost all of these are older movies. (I strongly recommend Chameleons with Ashlyn Gere and Diedre Holland.) And some of his scenes in Europe are fun, but to find them you have to wade through a lot of disturbing stuff.

I find this with a lot of the Euro porn I've seen. Yes, there are fewer implants and fresher faces, and the production value is often very good. But a lot of the women clearly don't want to be doing porn. If the actress doesn't look like she's enjoying herself (pretending or not) then I can't get into it. Some of the Euro babes don't look happy during the scene at all and it's borderline rape on camera. I've read more than once of European porn stars moving to the U.S. because they're treated far better here.

I'm sure there are American porn actresses that don't want to be in the business too. But to show her not enjoying the sex and obviously wishing it was over is another thing altogether. There's a strong misogynistic streak in Euro porn that I find myself avoiding.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #22 (permalink)
dongalong is offline

I have just discovered Brazillian porn.

The film that I saw is called: Fidelidade a prova by Brasileirinhas.
It has everything that a porno film should have: Fly on the wall filming technique=no action missed out! Big cocks, natural boobs, good looking, multi-racial actors, real pleasure and real orgasms. These days, although it is "ordinary" porn, it stands out because it only has the best bits!

It gave me a stonkin' hard on and I'm sure it is the kind of porn women would also appreciate.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #23 (permalink)
stud_hunter is offline

Most mainstream porn sucks. The women don't seem like they're enjoying themselves, they have bad boob jobs, and the women are all the camera ever focuses on. That said, I'm not a big porn-watcher but I have seen some straight porn I liked - when both people look like they're actually enjoying themselves, and if the director can break away from the plastic woman for a second to focus on the built, hung stud doing her senseless, well, it's not entirely without the potential for enjoyment . Most porn falls short though. And, as I've said on all the other porn threads, I can't stand facials. I don't understand why every scene has to end with a facial, or who gets off on that, but it's a huge turn-off for me.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #24 (permalink)
SurferGirlCA is offline

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I can't stand SM where women are actually tortured and I wouldn't even consider watching snuff films so it's not my thing.
I also would find that annoying.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #25 (permalink)
SurferGirlCA is offline

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Ah, SurferGirl, I think I love you!
Thanks! You have good taste!

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The Roquelaure/Rice "Sleeping Beauty" trilogy was indeed pretty hot... for the most part. Some of her phraseology made me giggle ("she moaned softly as he kissed her moist little sex") at the most inopportune time, but in all, it was exceptionally erotic. And it was loaned to me by one of my best friends, a straight woman who also liked porn. She has a fairly large collection.
Well, I guess Anne did go the more traditional bodice-ripper route with some of the dialogue, but I'm guessing that was to keep it from being presented as outright "smut" (maybe her publisher had a clause about how many times she could use the p-word?). As in most porn films I've seen, I'm happy to forget the dialogue if the action is hot enough.

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There are a few of the female porn stars who went on to start their own production companies, and produce porn geared either neutral or more toward "women's taste."
If that means films along the lines of those late-night "Skinemax" soft-core soap operas, include me out. I am very visual-oriented, even though gender-biases say I'm not supposed to be, so I have NOTHING against watching hot sex. I just am not into the degradation vs. plastic people options. With all the women here watching gay porn, maybe I'm missing out there.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #26 (permalink)
Bette is offline

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I'd be surprised if there are many women that like Rocco Siffredi's humiliation based style of porn - although I wouldn't copy him in real life, his films do turn me on more than most.
WHAT??? Rocco is the ultimate porn God. No other man will ever come close to Rocco's abilities. He will go down in history as the sex god.

Though there are certainly others in the past who have been excellent (Holmes, Vouyer), and while some present day male porn stars are super (Trent Tesoro, Mark Ashley), no one could ever beat Rocco.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #27 (permalink)
SurferGirlCA is offline

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And, as I've said on all the other porn threads, I can't stand facials. I don't understand why every scene has to end with a facial, or who gets off on that, but it's a huge turn-off for me.
And I think I have "Amen, sister"-ed you before on that point, so for consistency's sake, Ame - oh well, you get it.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #28 (permalink)
Bette is offline

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I know that porn turn ons are often very different from reality. but his stuff actually scares me sometimes. to me it's almost like you have admitted to getting aroused by female snuff films.
Again, I say:

WHAT??? Look, I have seen more Rocco porn than anyone here. He fucks like a piledriver. Chicks would die to be with him. What's wrong with a little kink in your porn? I've never been offended by anything I've seen Rocco do. He's a tad too heavy on the anal for me, but that's just my own personal preference. Otherwise.....I'm very upset that he retired from acting. I hear he will still direct, with Evil Angel. But I can never get enough Rocco. I LIKE IT ROUGH, and Rocco delivers.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #29 (permalink)
Bette is offline

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I'm not convinced sex was ever like that. Frankly, some things will lead a man to get himself stabbed, evenin these civilized times. So in less civilized times...
Wow. I guess I'm the only chick here who really likes to be FUCKED. None of this "Oh honey, slower" for me. Christ, how fucking boring!

Piledriving studs, apply here!

It doesn't have to be rough every time, but if I met the man in real life who could fuck like Rocco, I'd be a very happy woman.
 
Old 08-13-2006   #30 (permalink)
sares is offline

oh Bette, get over yourself dear. it isn't the piledriving. it's the brutality of his anal and the swirlies and the spitting and the slapping.
 

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