Unfair to ask a female friend?

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im not gay but if you want her to think of you sexually you should definitely ask her a bunch of questions about condoms. Make sure you have a bunch of questions in mind or you'll forget. Like start the conversation with "What are your thoughts on condoms? How do they feel for girls? What kind of lube makes it feel the best? then ask How far should the condom roll down? Have you ever had a guy break a condom or have it slide off?

if all else fails you should tell her you have some lower abdominal pain and show her your abs ;)

Rather than asking her to tell you, ask her to show you.

then take it from there.

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Sounds to me like a confidence issue!

Like you said, you are a virgin. You're 19, and obviously feeling very sexual. You want a sexual relationship, but with no prior experience you lack the confidence to begin one.

You have an attractive female friend who you are very close to. Because of your raging horomones and need to connect, your brain is telling you that this might be your best shot. But your lack of confidence is also telling you "We're too good of friends to try that." Bullshit! There is never such a thing.

There are lots of females out there who think you are attractive. Your friend probably does too. But you have to be confident, see yourself as good as everyone else. What reason is there for your friend to see you differently than a friend? From being so close to you she know's your insecurities, knows how you might not be so confident sexually with woman.

But get over it! You're only 19! It may seem like everyone around you is scoring all the time, but you'd probably be surprised how many guys are also in your shoes too.

As for your question, I think it will not improve any chances with this female (if that is what you truly want). She knows that you don't have sexual experience and will probably just see the question as a way of dealing with your insecurity. If you ever want to be sexual with this girl, you are going to have to be sexually confident to some degree.

As for the condom, if you want to be properly protected you need to roll the condom down to the base of your cock. Don't they teach this in health class? In porn they never roll it down all they way to make the dicks look bigger.

Hope I helped somewhat. You have it in you, just be confident! Some things take time.

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This is terrible advice. I hope you meant it tongue-in-cheek.

Due to the personal nature of my private albums I only add "friends" if I have previous interaction with the person on the forum or in chat.

BarelyBig,

I have to say if a guy asked me that question, I would assume there was another agenda. Not to say I would be disgusted or run screaming, but I would for sure believe that he was "testing the waters" - even if he was a longstanding str8 friend. Sorry, I just think that is something a guy would ask one of his male friends, since they would have a lot more knowledge on the subject. I'm with Wonderboy on this one; I would see it as a ploy. Just my 2 cents.

Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions -- Anais Nin

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water ran since the intial post, but im with SurferGirlCA too... And also...you really do complicate things too much! I was a specialist of that before too and I think you'll pretty much have all these worries go away once you start dating a girl seriously.

However it seems to me that you love the girl, you just don't want to admit it to yourself to "protect" your friendship. I've been there. I'll tell the hard truth: you cannot be friend with her anymore. you either have to do your come out or just bury the relationship.

I know it seems extreme, i know many people will not agree with that, but given your relationship, you can't stay on the same trajectory with her, it will slowly kill you.

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Well my best friend is a male; who when drunk confesses his love for me, and shows off his large cock. "ljbf" is bullshit, he's my best friend and I am his.