Have U ever touched man's penis while he's sleeping

great, now we have THREE voices of reason in this thread. we won't be the minority for long.

Just to clear things up on my part... my friend knew about it because we had talked about it that day... we know whats gonna happen to whoever falls asleep first, it makes it more fun/interesting... We always talk about what went on the next day...

Who would admit to actually touching and sucking another man's penis? Wouldn't that question your sexuality or would it just curb your enthusiasm?

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I have a situation for everyone to ponder over:

You are into girls, totally 100% straight. You are spending the night at your best friend's house and go to bed. All of a sudden, you feel him touching you and rubbing you all over. In response to the shocking unexpected behaviour do you:

• Pretend to be asleep. You don't want to ruin your friendship and be awkward around your best friend. After all, if you confront him then you could lose your best friend forever. So you just stick it out and uncomfortaly wait for it to end.
• Confront him, lose your best friend, have to spend the night with this person who has sexually advanced on you and ruin the life of your best friend also.

I would probably pretend to be asleep, not wanting any trouble, even though I would be letting something I don't like happen to me.


I know what it is like to be sexually advanced upon by a good friend who is a friend and nothing more. It is extremely awkward to say no and carry on like nothing happened. The situation I encountered probably ruined that friendship I had. It was a similar situation and although I won't go into details, he sexually advanced on me and put me on the spot. I had a hard choice, and I chose to leave politely and avoid him for a few weeks.

Like E-man said, we want to hurt our friends as little as possible, so when put in a situation like this the decision of what to do may be so hard that you just stick it out until he's finished.

Don't call me dumb here, but what exactly did you confirm with your little experiment?

Every situation is different, isyoucrazy. If you discussed this beforehand then it is different. It is when the person does something with no warning that it becomes an illegality.

i know one thing, this is starting to feel like more of a support group for michael jackson and r. kelly. sick fetishes and sexual abuse

See cow you are having a more open perspective to this argument! Others are set in their ways but I don't fret, I know what I did was perfectly fine by me and my friend so their is nothing wrong with anything we did =] [=

Used to live with my girlfriend (Before I came out) She used to come and get me to wake up her brothers best friend who lived with the family. She would come in and say she could'nt do it because his dick was hanging out of his boxers. I bitched about it but I went in to wake him up every time. He was a nice size with great low hangers. His cock used to be hard every time and alot of times his nuts would hang out too. I would kinda stare for awhile with the pounding heart and quick breathing. I did not have the nerve. Finally it became my thing to get him awake and she stopped asking so I would gladly go in to see it. I was 21 and he was 17.

One day he was really hard to wake up, I tried for a really long time. I finally got the nerve to touch it. I just "accidentally" brushed up against it. Oops. When he did not move I wrapped my fingers around it. God it was so hot and hard. I could feel his heartbeat pounding through it, Wait was it mine too. He stirred and I let it go. I jumped up and closed his bedroom door. I went back and pulled that huge sack out, they hung all the way to the bed and pooled up around his asshole.. (I think he is the reason I love huge sacks) I played with them for a few minutes and then began to slowly stroke his cock. That was the freakin hottest thing that ever happened to me until that point. He never stirred. I lost my nerve and had to stop. By that time I was so hard and my precum had soaked through my shorts. MY girlfriend burst through the door and I was almost caught. I had to play like I was really pissed that I could not wake him up. She fell for it, I do not know how as when I stood up I was a hard as japanese arithmatic and pouring pre cum.

A long story short, We started to share a room, I made advances and he acknowledged one night and I ended up swallowing his load the first time. He had a girlfriend and a 3 month old daughter. We messed around for over a year (Yes, I am a cheater) and when I went to move he decided to move with me. We have been together fpr almost 14 years and we keep going strong.

I asked him if he ever knew I was playing with him and he says no, I believe him, Because it took me over 5 hours to make the move the first night, If he had known he would have made the move alot sooner. Shit, I can't wait for him to come home, I am so friggin horny just thinking about that story.

I have to give a qualified yes to this statement. Children will do that sort of thing sometimes. Especially if they have heard older kids talking about it. Younger and middle age teens will sometimes do it as well. But this is done at an age where they aren't thinking as adults. They may have sexual feelings but no nothing about sexual relationships and sometimes they don't know about boundaries.

I wouldn't include people who have had previous sexual contact and that level of relationship hasn't been yet broken. I would assume that the person thought that nothing had changed since last Saturday night's sleep over.

I liked the way a first grade teacher handled this when a boy touched a girl's ass at school, I was one of the teachers on duty but not being a first grade teacher, I didn't know exactly how to approach such a subject with a young boy. Her comment was simply. "Does it belong to you? It isn't yours. It belongs to someone else. You have to have their permission to touch it." Works for all ages. If it isn't your penis, you have to have permission to touch it. It may be permanently granted if you are in a committed relationship. Still, I wouldn't want my wife to reach over and grab my penis in the middle of a movie at the theater just because no person could see her.

BoyNextDoor made a comment that he thought . "And, I do not think it is usual for brothers to fool around. That is a tad wierd." I know that Landon does not have any brothers. I believe that the age difference and ages are major players here. If the brothers are children or early teens and close to the same age, I wouldn't consider is abnormal. It happens too often to consider it abnormal. (The word abnormal being a mathematical term, not a moral term.) Is it morally OK to do? That is a totally different question. If one brother is 10 and one is 17, forget the idea that the 17 year old hasn't had his 18th birthday yet so....and on and on so nothing is wrong here. There is a lot wrong here. That is incest. That could be considered rape.

Hard to make hard and fast rules, but a lot depends on what is going on the the minds of BOTH brothers concerning the touching. The biggest sexual organ is still the brain where thinking takes place.

Like I said, if they consent beofore hand or it is accepted in the friendship/relationsip, then by all means touch away. But you have to give SOME kind of warning because its selfish to place your sexual desires before the feelings of the victim/recipient (you choose which one)

let me clarify, i'm not against touching guys in their sleep, i fondle my boyfriend in his sleep sometimes.what i'm against is fondling people in their sleep if you know they wouldn't let you while they're awake. if you can't do it while they're awake, you shouldn't do it while you're sleep, isn't that a decent rule to live by?? i know a good chunk of these stories are fantasy, but there are some that raise flags when its implied that the poster knows they can ONLY touch the victim in their sleep because, if awake, the person wouldn't allow this.

If a woman were to do this to me, which one did, then that would be fine. However, I can't say I would be cool if it were another man carousing my dick.

Harmless shit teens and young adults do. Your points are taken now get over yourselves. Most of us find ourselves by pushing the envelope. I don't think anyone ever thought of it as rape or molestation. After all you cannot rape the willing.

I think that is a really good quote. I hope it makes some people think twice before ruining their friendships.

Yeah, I think it's fine in cases like yours where you already have an intimate relationship, but when it is done solely for the pleasure of the toucher then it is definately wrong.