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Originally Posted by E-man I really can't believe you just made fun of him because he was RAPED and then threatened to talk about his DEAD aunt. That's just sick dude, real low. You can't possibly be that inconsiderate. That might be the problem in this situation. You aren't thinking about anybody else but yourself. YOU thought it was in good taste to mock a traumatic moment in his life. Youd didn't take into account the fact that HE might be emotionally scarred from the experience. I'm not going to have a page long argument with you over this because its not worth it but seriously, I hope you realize how damaging your words can be and chose them more carefully. Not everyone is like you. Not everyone thinks like you. Few people can talk about such grave matters in such a cavalier manner and treat them as a joke. Please be sensative to that. |
this problem is common on the net and i'm slowy realizing why. if i were to insult a person who HAPPENED to be (insert race or religion here), people would assume that i'm prejudice and don't like ANY member of that group. my posts were referring to the members of this thread who are engaging in predatory behavior, but he mistakingly thought i was referring to him and responded with the typical internet rudeness. fortunately i'm over my experience (though it does suck seeing my abuser at family reunions), and i'm just glad the comments were directed towards me and not someone with a more fragile personality. because this is his thread, he's CHOOSING to ignore the undertones of incest and sexual abuse that are blatant in this thread, like a parent who ignores the fact that their child is knocking boxes off the shelf at wal-mart. very few people have the humility to look past their own agenda and knowing that makes it easier for me to frequent these forums without taking offense to the personal attacks. i know better than to think i'm better than anyone else.
(though i'm feeling a bit high and mighty now for having never abused anyone in their sleep)