I had my first "one night stand" at the gym. I'd been cruised before and never had done anything, but one night I am leaving and this guy stops me outside the gym door. He is complimenting me and acts like he's known me for ever. He gives me a number, we meet for dinner, I take him back to my place and screw around. He called me later but I didn't want anything more. Now that I am more mature, I shuold have turned him into a "F" buddy-booty-call. I didn't realize then how "in control" or the power that I could have being a top :) Live and learn :)