I agree w/allyblu...I workout at the gym like 5 times a week and I get more stares or some guy tries to undress or stand naked near me...I keep my ipod on from the time I walk in the gym and look straight ahead...My gym is probably over 50% gay males but I am never rude and will talk to your or say hello in between sets but I only have about a hour or a little more to work out and I do a lot in that hour so that is one reason I like to keep it about the work out...And I live right by my gym so I go home to shower...Sex at the gym is not a fantasy of mine but more power to anyone else who it is a fantasy for...