Christian Guy About To Get Married

I'm scared.

I had always thought that it was best to pick the right moment to have sex for the first time, when you both feel ready. For me the guy I first had sex with had built up the experience gradually.This will also apply to you, you may not be ready on your wedding night for full penetrative sex.

Exactly. You may not be able to have intercourse the first time or the second.
I'm not sure if you mean you are 6" girth, but my husband used to be almost 6 & 1/2 when he had a strong erection. That was 20 years ago.

I was not a virgin, but I had little experience. One day when we were just cuddling he told me he wished we could have the romantic, heated first time, but in realty that might not happen.
We did talk about the fact that it might not be that great. That made more sense than not saying anything and when the moment arrived, things go downhill.

We did not have intercourse on the first 3 or 4 tries. When he was able to get in about an inch, he had to just stop there. It was just too uncomfortable.
We actually did that quite a few times and just stayed in that position for 10-15 min.
One day he was able to get in a little more and then more and that was how it went!

I think having a sense of humor about it helped a lot. What can you do but laugh. All you can think is "no one would belive this".

You two need to talk. If you can't talk about sex......well, let's just say you need to begin now.

Alex,

A late response. I have been (more or less) in the position you are in now. It worked out fine and more than fine. You've already had some good advice (as well as a little of the reverse, sad to say).

It might be good to give her an idea of what she has to expect; she must already know you are big, but probably not how big. Pick a suitable moment and take her hands in yours so she can begin to get to know you more definitely. It is better that way than what might be total shock at your size when she sees it for the first time.

Also you can reassure her when the time comes that you only intend to put a small fraction in ... you will know that she has to be comfortable with your thickness before you can begin going in to any depth at all.

She is a lucky woman, but no doubt she already knows that.

walk around nude after the ceremony so she can prepare herself for it

yes I'm thinking of disrobing on the wedding night sometime before "the big deed." I don't have any idea how much she knows.

We're going to have a general "wedding night" talk soon. Hopefully I'll have good news to report.

Hello--I was just thinking of this site.

I thought that it would be ok to come back and tell you all that everything went very well and that all is well.

Alex

Wow, congrats Alex... that's great news. I wasn't here for the original discussion, but I'm glad I caught the positive ending. ;)

And don't worry it will get even better and better ;-)..

Best of luck to you..

Not to worry, your penis will most likely in no way harm your wife during sexual intercourse. A nine inch penis is very long, but yet not long enough to cause damage and pain to the vagina, unless she is thight og have any medical problems concerning this area.

First off, I want to tell you that I have a lot of respect for you. I too am a Christian and have made the decison to wait until I am married to have sex. I think it would be a good idea to give her a heads up about your size. After reading many posts on this site, I would say that you definitely are not freakish. I also think it would be a good idea to do some trimming for your wedding night. I think any woman woulod appreciate it. I know if I were a woman, I wouldn't want to be giving a guy a blow job and be getting pubes in my mouth.

Wishing you great happiness! Lucky groom! Lucky bride! Two wonderful people together! All is right with the world!