When did you lose your virginity?

just last summer, was 17 at the time.
not good at all, with a guy I knew okay, just a one night thing.
learned the hard way that, Big dick =/= good sex.

oh well, later another guy taught me the wonders of sex, so I'm good

The first full sexual intercourse was just last year, with my girlfriend. We had been trying long but i used to have problems with condoms.

Once she got on the pill, everything went well.

I was 19. Only thing good was the sex, maybe the 36DD's...she was physically repulsive...I just was in it for sex, as was she.

I was 13. It was with a friend of my mother...

We hooked up again when I was 15...she was amazed at how much I had umm developed since the first time...

Glad you could stay friends. Yes, 14 is too young to really appreciate it.

I had mine in my backpack out camping. I slipped down the hill, my pack fell off, it fell out and I never was able to find it. ;)
I waited so long the gates rusted shut. The jaws of life can't get them open. haha
Seriously, I still have mine and it's an antique. The Smithsonian is trying to get me to donate it to their collection.

Aw man don't be down on yourself. There is so much out there that can kill you or make you wish you were dead. It didn't use to be that way. Just be patient. Wait until you find the right woman. OOO wait until you are married and on the honeymoon. She'll have a tough time backing out on ya then.

I was 15, with an older boy from school. He had an average sized dick and it was awkward, but I think that pretty normal for your first time. We did it one other time, and then not too long after I met my first real boyfriend, and my first 'big' man. :)

10 years old at summer camp with a hot counselor at about 2 am.... we had both been teasing each other, started with a little playing around then I asked to be fucked.

Woot, not alone here :). Though I'm 22 and in more or less the same boat, about 7.5 and haven't gotten any use out of it yet...I love to please, too, the frustration and pure irony gets me at times, haha.

i was 13
and its probably a moment i will never forget for the rest of my life for the wrong reasons... (i was sexually abused by my father)

the first time i chose to be fucked i was 19
the first time i fucked someone i was 32

technically as i have never had sex with a woman i am probably still a virgin

Thanks with all the encouragement guys. And thanks to hearing from everyone who's in the same (or similar) boat.

I doubt I'm getting married at this point. I've never had a girlfriend, women have never desired me, I don't get along with them if they do typically and I just fuck things up by being my own damn self. It's always been easy for me to deal with guys, adult women I don't understand. I'm pretty much a social disaster, I always manage to offend people somehow... and if I just keep my mouth shut people think I'm shy or something. I know that's an endearing trait for a lot of women, but apparently none I've been around.

I've never even had my first kiss. Not even a hug really.

Stories of these guys losing it so early 1.)make me pretty fucking hot and 2.)make me not jealous, but make me feel like... what exactly have I been doing wrong. and I can't figure an answer.

I can't relate to anyone who regrets losing it that early, I probably never will be able to considering my position... I was a very sexual child, I masturbated when I was 7, I wanted badly to fuck girls since about that age, I was always too shy to even talk to girls because my parents... deterred that.

I'm sorry for all that I'm pretty fucking depressed right now, and I have no one to vent on. I'm feeling that alot of my "friends" are only friends to a certain degree and not willing to listen to my problems (another reason I'm depressed) and the ones who really are my friends must be tired of listening. And much like how I can't understand the situation that is theirs and which belongs to many here, they can't understand mine anyways. I'm really ready to give up on love.

I'm sorry. I'm a wreck. I'm ready right now to give up on more than love, I've really screwed myself over in so many ways after having been given so much...

Slade

[I'm sorry for all that I'm pretty fucking depressed right now, and I have no one to vent on. I'm feeling that alot of my "friends" are only friends to a certain degree and not willing to listen to my problems (another reason I'm depressed) and the ones who really are my friends must be tired of listening. And much like how I can't understand the situation that is theirs and which belongs to many here, they can't understand mine anyways. I'm really ready to give up on love.]

Dude, that's exactly how i feel. Im 19 this month and still a virgin. At collage all the guys were putting so much pressure on me to lose it and i was having none of it, lol, literally. Anyway, i was bigger than all of them so to me i didn't feel i had to prove my masculinity. One of them was infact "totty" as the halls slapper later told us. Anyway, i've had a couple of opportunities to lose it but not with girls ive loved, and that's all i want. To be loved. maybe it's cause i'm a leo. However being incredibly horny all the time doesn't help. Lol
But im proud of myself that i'm waiting because why should anyone tell me when I should or shouldn't do something because of what they think. Don't give up on love pal. It's what i'm waiting on. And don't get depressed. It doesn't make you a loser, it makes you a fuckin' Hero.

Uh..I think calling 17 a later starter should show that society is in a downward spiral..but that's just me.

Anyway, my first 'sexual experience' was on my 16th birthday, with my long-term boyfriend at the time.

However, I have not (for this is what I personally consider my virginity) done anal because that's how I roll.


Also, I don't see why not having sex yet is in the least bit upsetting or 'depressing'. Okay, I do understand that it is clearly in the human capacity to be discouraged about your lack of sexual experience...but..uh..whatever happened to sex being meaningful? Whatever. Also, When I hear depressing I think clinical depression, and believe me the majority of people who use the word depressing to describe feelings have never felt the sting of clinical depression.

But, yeah..by my own personal opinion (the only one that matters), i'm still a 'virgin'.
going to stay that way till i find 'Mr. Right'

8)

It was my sophomore year in high school and I was 16, almost turning 17, at the time. I was dating this girl for three months and it seemed that all my friends were starting to have sex or had already had it. I felt like I needed to start tacking some action. I talked it with her and she said that she was ready. So, one weekend in November we went to my dad's cabin out near the lake for a retreat. The rest is history. It was really not what I expected it to be. It took a lot of communication, a lot of patience. We fumbled a lot and it was just an akward experience.

I do not have any regrets in my life and I choose not to. While I would have preferred that I was older and waited and had come more to terms that I was actually gay instead of trying to feed my idealism that I was a womanizer, I do not regret my actions. What happened happened and I cannot change that.

I was sorta raped at 14...not really but a friend of my older sister was staying at our house one weekend and she snuck into my room and made me fuck her. It wasnt a hard sell :) funny thing is she had a bf but she kept wanting me to fuck her. she said she liked my cock.

first time fucking a guy i was 15. still have not been fucked myself.