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Originally Posted by Pumblechook I hope so too :)
Which in the very essence of this thread, I will not be the last person to misunderstand you, but I will be the first to say, I'm sorry. |
Oh, you didn't say anything that needed an apology

. I've been thinking about this issue of directness and "in your faceness" and truly I don't think I'm "in your face" at all. I'm just at a stage where I just don't see the point of trying to pretend or play politics with a lot of stuff. So for instance with a sexual partner I'm really honest and direct, but not in an abrasive way or anything. I'm not trying to yell and scream or put anybody down. Just trying to be honest about what I want and what does it for me, and I'd expect the same from him. If we're not on the same page, it's always best to know so when can get on the same page or go our separate ways.
Some people compliment me for "knowing what I want." I definitely am way more self aware now than ever before and that probably helps in being honest. But really I don't think I'm aggressive or anything like that, at least in a bad way

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