I agree with all the above concerning cultural differences and the display of affection, even among family members. At some point in my life growing up, I no longer kissed my father when saying goodbye. It just seemed normal not to.

As an adult that continued until at a family gathering, I noticed my cousins greeting both parents with a kiss, doing the same when it was time to go. Me and my siblings were all adults at that point, and I don't remember who started it first, but my brothers and I started give my dad (and mom of course) a kiss when we were saying good-bye. My dad was not surprised by the gesture and has never said anything about it. It has now been at least 10 years and the custom continues. It is just a small gesture of love, but I think it is important to express it.

I am very glad that all my nieces and nephews are being raised to show affection for their relatives and there are no good-byes without hugs and kisses all around.

Even us 'staid' New Englanders can change if we want to! :D

LapDog :P