Thats just how I feel. It'd be cool to have a fun bonding thing like that. In fact this whole thread is really awesome - just knowing that so many other ppl are or have been in the same situation, and felt nervous about approaching someone- is a good to hear.
Speaking of which, are there any more guys who can talk about how they initiated it?
I'm thinking theres no guaranteed safe way to avoid the chance of freaking someone out by asking, but the experience/advice still helps.
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I think thats the thing about this, and that is that I rekon quite a lot of guys are interested in it, but its the self imposed barriers that make everything so diffiult... "what if he thinks Im a perv?" sets in...

*sigh*
And ofcourse the people who have had a friend like this, the mutual masturbation will come around in unique ways for different people ,I dont think there is a particular way to bring this sort of thing up, you just have to know that person and slowly steer things around.

Ive been trying it for while, and t appears to be working.