I was difinitely different. For some reason, I was not able to ejaculate until my late teens. But I had wet dreams starting at age 13. I had them fairly often. The first time I thought I had wet the bed. Fortunately I had an older brother who had explained about semen and what it was. I don't know when I found out that other guys had wet dreams but it was several years later.

Sexual confusion and guilt I am sure played a part in why I didn't ejaculate at an earlier age when masturbating. I had no problem with erection. I think I was having orgasms without ejaculate for some reason. I know I do that now sometimes.