jealousy from tha brothas

Ty, you may be young, and that in itself leads me to cut you some slack due to your inexperience, but actually reading a thread might broaden your knowledge and your thinking. And it does not have to threaten your heterosexuality (or whatever).

It's not a wonder you'll get called on some statements you make on this site. Anybody who ventures an opinion that riles another will get a response here. Accountability rules.

I believe it is real for you to have the sense of feeling sickened. You might want to learn something about that.

I'm 100% straight, and when I was at your age had little contact or knowledge of gays. I guess I could say the same could be true of my knowledge of people of colour. Women. Everyone. I also had much less self awareness of myself.

You'll see that if Cricketsliar has a problem with you dissing his thread without you actually reading it, you can only look foolish. Respect.

I've never once used the phrase "inferiority complex" in my thread to describe the way Black men regard White Men's cocks. I did refer to reverse fascination, but "inferiority complex" seems more in keeping with tone of your thread "jealousy from the brothas".

So whats the point

Exactly!

Ty --

I'm glad you're speaking English now.

I can't believe your friends have this reaction without you somehow helping put this show on the road. I mean, you're saying they do this from jealousy and resentment of your penis? I hope I'm not reading you right.

I've known guys with enormous endowments -- but very few (none, really) who were generally resented because of it.

Some endowed guys have complexes about their 'gift.' I've known guys like that who were ridiculed on that score ... but it was an element of their psyche, and not their anatomy, that caused the problem.

We get back from the world what we put out.

If that's not the case here, then maybe you need new friends.

Hope this is okay to say.

The only thing that startled me is the fact that you mentioned circle jerks and what not, stuff that "in my hood" would have been extremely taboo and people would not consider you a "man" if you even talked about it. Maybe that's cause of me growing up in The Heart of North Carolina. Doesn't make me look at you different tho'...I think that kinda stuff is just man-stuff that people experience. Nothing gay about it, I don't think.

Anyway in response. I have friends that are big. But we don't talk about it. The biggest of us know it and the smaller may joke about it on the every now and then. When girls talk to one of my boys about another guy, he may reveal what he knows.

Actually my boys saw pics I took of myself on my computer and they were all shocked. Only reason I know they talked about it is because after that, the girls started talking about it...and they had to hear it from somewhere. I don't think anyone was jealous...it was more of a "That's my n****!" kinda thing and left alone. I think now they look forward to hearing from a girl I did or something...like they always trying to pitt me up with some girl and talking me up. *shrugs*

My boys are pretty much cool about it tho'....

...and for the record, dialect does not denotate sophistication. Maybe connotate, but never denotates. You guys bashed him pretty hard for the way he talked. And his talking like that showed he felt comfortable, that's all. :)

The men I know don't talk about other men's penises and I don't remember asking. One for the future I think.

It used to hurt how people treated me because of the way I spoke. I'm not so bothered now. A little sad because the way I speak and the words I use seem to be a barrier.

Black cock? In my younger days I had a few. Two were outstanding: 1. A ten inch thick thing on a skinny little guy from Sierra Leone and 2. the love of my life, damn sexy despite only having four inches on his 6ft+ body.

Well, i'll put some cents in now too....

what BIgBoy9239 said (i think that was his numerical nom du guerre?) about how endowed ALL his black friends were.....if it's a stereotype, how do you explain those measurements?

i have been with a number of "dudes of color" and probably an equal number of white dudes. all the black guys were as big as the biggest white guy i have seen, except one, who was a bit smaller thanh the largest white guy. and some of the black guys were realy mammoth...like 9.5 and 12 inches respectively. one due in the high school locker room showering had a glistening dark black corncob-lengthed and thick limp penis so i'm not sure how much a stereotype that was!

i think "brothas" tend to hang a little larger when limp, which might cause the stereotype to 'expand' a bit, and of course all races can have well-endowed members (no pun intended!) but from ym experiences and talks with my pals, dudes of african decent have a greater chance of well-endowed and i trhink the biggest dudes i've ever seen, at least in porn, are definitely black guys.

I hate to mention this but, Black Americans have about 30% ancestry (only considering gene that an be characterized as African, European, etc were are a minority of total genes). Often Black American have a Y gene of European origin. The Y gene is where the all the male characteristics are encoded. So it is a myth. One the other hand, white women I've seen certainly think its huge to an almost ridiculous (but fun) extent. But sex is largely (no pun intented) in the mind so that's par for the course

I feel for ya. The jealousy factor is a Helluva prob with the homies.. as i'm black as well.. On one occasion, my 3 best buds (1 white, 2 black) went swimming . and i had somehow gotten SERIOUSLY aroused. They decided to leave, and i was stuck covering my manhood with my beach towel. i rushed back to the locker/ shower room, and tried to get to my locker, problem wwas, the guys were there.
Never really having joked about cock-size with them (as most of us do), I noticed that they were all pretty small comparatively (curiously, they were erect too!)
I stripped off my trunks (wtf, i guesss i thought), and felt funny with 3 TOTALLY HETERO guys staring at my piece. i was anywhere from 3 inches larger to double one's size).
NOW they make jokes in front of their sisters, girlfriends, even ONE's mom... On one hand, I like the attention, but on the other hand, they trip about it .../ Jealous? could be...

As a black man, I know it is a stereotype....I myself consider myself pretty average like 6 3/4 or 7in erect....But working in the modeling industry I have seen a lot of guys naked....I have seen guys that were well over 9 inches who were - Asian, latino, and white....I mean the most impressive I saw was on the Asian guy which really shocked me since I probably fell into believing stereotypes....Also, the smallest and almost non-exisitent guys I have seen was a white guy and a black guy....Can't say that the stereotype of black guys been huge hasn't gotten me laid by especially none blacks, but I never really like bragging on my package....I am kind of a freak (bad word) in the bedroom so my cock is only one part of the fun I like to provide....So I think it is what the previous person said and in my experience, I think black guys are pretty large flaccid and that is probably part of the stereotype....That stereotype can be bad for blacks because even though I don't get any compliants about my size - most guys and girls expect me to be like 9+ inches or something I guess because I am 6'2" too and for some reason my bulge looks kind of huge in jeans (thankyou Diesel) and I get comments and stares....

Not to sound like a Ho or anything, but most of the black dudes I've been with have been pretty big. Now, there was that one time, when his "anaconda" turned out to be a garden snake. I mean, really. I felt like I was on ashton kutcher's punked! But yes, it's a myth. Now, as for the jealousy. I'm not too sure about that one. If you all are doing circle jerks, and etc, then maybe it's not so much jealousy, but sexual tension. That's something you may want to take a look into. And maybe you're the only perceiving their envy to a form of guilt, shame, or desire? Something you might want to consider. Holla,
Dante'

Sample size. Simple. If you were a Martian sent to earth to investigate whether or not life existed, you would get a different answer depending on whether you landed in the middle of the Sahara versus if you landed in the middle of Times Square on New Year's Eve.

It is a stereotype. One that cuts both ways (sometimes it favors men of color, other times it doesn't), just like most other stereotypes.