Psychological turn-ons

Hey, what is everyone's biggest psychological turn-on? You know when your brain is still functioning in some reasonable manner.

For me I think its when someone turns wicked-playful on you. I can't resist that....AT ALL. Maybe I'm just a sucker for that, but it works on me almost every time.

I know there are other ones that get me, but that's my #1.

What's everybody else's?

My top mental turn on is when my boyfriend and I are sitting across from each other at a restaraunt,and he just starts smiling,like he's enjoying a private joke
My other turn on is the way his eyes seem to sparkle each time he smiles,or when he yawns and stretches his arms Even the most basic,mundane things that man does drives me insane

Dirty talk bordering on cock worship:

ie fuck me, yeah! god your cock is so fucking big, its so deep! fuck me harder...etc

No one has actually done that to date, most I've had is fuck me (said in monotone which is shit, I want enthusiasm) and 'you're so big' which was said matter-of-factly too...

I want someone to talk real dirty and ideally squirt I think. Also when a girl just grabs my cock its hot.

some random hot guy walked in my house and kidnapped me. :P
it has never happened, but i am very turned on by that idea.

Imagining or actually grabbing a person on the hips/waste, whether the person is clothed or not, from behind is an automatic turn on.

It is like flipping on a light switch.

Yep for me too...

Be taken by surprise and see the hunger and urgency for me in his yes...and keep most of the clothes on...who has time to take them off...he coming from behind and grab my breast, butt & kitty with full big hands...not little fingers but big full hands grabs...hmmmmmmmmm....




Teasing and forbidden places too...be given the look that melts me and wets and have to wait a bit & run to be "feed" by him...



Outdoors sex...hmmm...hehehehe...



Imagining, reading, write about those things...

Ok...i'm ready....

When we're out in public and a girl leans over and softly tells me what she's going to do to me later, preferably in a very slutty manner (though she's outwardly a very 'respectable' girl). Or just that kind of touch and look in her eye that tells me what she's thinking.

A girl with a nice accent, well spoken but not prissy, and intelligence = lust.

DEAR G*D!!!

I have a weakness for lycra. If I'm in a speedo or similar, and a guy or girl in their swimsuit sits in my lap, I'm screwed because I get excited easily and it is impossible to hide, especially if I'm wearing dork shorts (board shorts) because the loose fabric just tents upwards, and outwards. It was an embarassing moment I'll never forget. I tried to cover it with a towel, but even that tented, looking like the big top circus tent.

Surprisingly, though I bottom for nobody, spooning me really turns me on. It's never happened to me beyond rubbing in lycra or underwear, but I had sort of a secondary orgasm, not a sperm kind of orgasm, more like a eyes roll to the bak of your head, heart racing, body trembling, chills all over, shortened breath, make your hair stand on end kind of orgasm.

Oh, that kind of orgasm, eh? Yeah, I know what you mean.

That one works for me, too! I like being messed with by someone I like and trust, and messing with them.

I also like it when someone goes out of their way to get to know me. I will never seek attention, and can be difficult to get to know, but I am always blown away when someone makes that move with me.

And that "dozy embrace" in BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN, I could go for some of that with anyone.

And that's NOT a sperm kind of orgasm? I'd hate to see what happens to you when you really cum.

A huge turn on is the thought of a guy
stark naked and I am still fully clothed,
right down to the shoes...it makes him
my toy and it's every bit as hot in reality,
as it is just thinking about it.

When I catch my girl staring at my crotch...sometimes i will draw attention to the area and she can't help but stare.