why does my b/f like seeing me with a large penis?

I share your husband's fantasy, just never acted it out yet in real life (please see my earlier thread today on this topic)

For me, there's also something about giving your girl something you don't have. You're still 'the provider' and you think that if you can control the situation, that she's not gonna go out and get a bigger cock on her own.

Fantasy of mine is to watch my wife fuck, and then fuck her. Will it ever happen...NO WAY...she is into one dude at a time. Why...well, dudes like to watch folks fuck...wild hot fucking, and knowing the f doing the fucking, and seeing her going wild on a cock, knowing she goes wild on your cock too....too much. I would love to see her cunt oozing cum, the mix of hers and another dudes...and then rubbing the mix of the cum on my cock, and then mixing my cum with the mix....HOT. I also love fucking a f for her dude while he watches...... and then watching him fuck his wife

In his column, Savage Love, Dan Savage once wrote that the answer to all "why does my boyfriend/girlfriend like..." questions is "because s/he does." From vanilla sex to the kinkiest fetish, none of us can really explain why we like the thing we like. We just do. Its not that it isn't interesting, but just that it is unaswerable. Our desires are way too far below the surface to be available to introspection on this level.

Enjoy it. That is all you can do.

I would love to see my girl get taken by a monster cock...especially if it was somewhat painful for her too. We both get turned on when I am fucking her and it hurts. She likes the thought of 'my man can hurt me with his cock', she says it is comforting and makes her feel safe that if I wanted to I could send her into oblivion orally or vaginally (or both) with my cock. What an overwhelming experience it can be...

Been there, done that

Think about it...he's watching the show...dang right he want to see you take some monster cock. (if a horse was available he would be SO cool with that too) He knows what it feels like to be inside you (good) and here are these hot dudes with huge cocks doing you so he fantisizes that it is him with the hugest of cocks of all of them. With every thrust he can feel it and it turns him on...WAY on.

I doesn't matter how he measures up to the other guys, only that the other guys have visually huge cocks.

He is watching himself from a different angle is all it is.

NOTE TO YOU: dang girl, be sure you're protected from these random dudes, you don't know where they've been

i think its the sound you make also, and the idea that you feel a big cock real good and deep, turns his on..
The knowing that you enjoy it really good, and the view of that turns him on.

I can think of no better quote to leave lpsg on, very well put forties.

It's been fun ya'll, peace!

Huh? AA, is this an announcement of permanent departure?

Although I'm by no means the biggest on this site I have experienced being 'used' by an older women for sex. She would call in a couple of times a week as her husband couldn't 'do it' any more. She told me she would relate her experiences to him and tell him how big I was. Apparently this would turn him on. Eventually he came with her to watch which was ok for a while but a little pathetic so I stopped the service. It's not nice watching a guy with his small dick out while his wife is being fucked in front of him. So it's not ALL good.

I would like to see my girlfriend too having sex with a very hung guy. I am average 6" and she told me that her former boyfriend was 8". It took 2 years to admit that she loved the feeling of a such a big cock and that sometimes she would like to experience it again.

no doubt its different for everyone, but it certainly is more comman than most people think, or admit. i've never done it, but the idea certainly turns me on big time and i think its because seeing/watching/experiencing a woman who is so totally wanton, and so into the experience that 1) she wants the 'ultimate' that those of us who are size obsessed view as the ultimate (the biggest dicks), and 2) she'll do anything to get it, she'll do it right in front of me, she'll totally let go and submit to her deepest desires. that's always a huge turnon, no matter the accessory (big cock, leather, whips and chains, toys, whatever)

Now we have some big dildos with a strap-on and sometimes she ask me to fuck her in a rude way, as her former boyfriend used to do. One year ago, when she discovered that it was a big turn on for me, she even asked him to join us but he didn't want. Anyway, we're having fun and we have some friends in MSN for webcam games with a hung guys.

Face it! A guy wants to see if a bigger cock guy really can satisfy his woman better than he can. . . yup, and the answer often is yes.

Of course, the reason might be the woman's state of mind, performing in front of her man and knowing he must be humiliated, not actually the larger cock itself!

I've been in the stud position more times than I can count. The husband/boyfriend invariably wants a hugely hung guy to fuck her in a way he can't himself, and he might get off on the cuckolding aspect, and even have bi fantasies (open or unconscious).

In the end, though, he gets to go home with his woman, and this is important. It is a safe, controlled environment.

Once I was invited as the extra cocksman by a couple. I entered her, thrusted gently about four times - after which she came, violently and uncontrollably. She even ejaculated, genuinely. He was totally and utterly turned on by the scene. Afterwards, he confirmed that it had to do with seeing her come just from feeling the size of my cock inside her: the sexuality of it, the horniness. He did not consciously feel humiliated, but it turned him on enormously to see her lose control like that.

Well, this seems like an appropriate thread for my first real post, since this is something that I'm *very* into. My on-again-off-again-depending-on-what-day-you-ask-me girlfriend and I have done a fair bit of swinging in the last few years, and this has been a staple of our sex life. Here's how it started.

Before we started swinging, during one of our breakups she started seeing this guy named Kurt. She would call me in the middle of the night to tell me how incredibly hung he was and how his manhood ripped her insides apart, and tell me wild stories about how she had laid him in front of strangers at a club with people taking pictures and videos. She was doing it to try and make me jealous at the time, which it did, but I found the thought of it incredibly arousing.

Then later on after we made up I was fooling around on her computer and found the pics of her and Kurt. Every word of it was true. Right down to the number of people watching. I got so turned on I couldn't stand it, and I actually got up a few times in the night and masturbated to the pics while she was sleeping. At first she didn't know I had found them, but I finally said something and let her know that I liked them. So we started looking at them together and she gave me a play-by-play commentary on each one.

After we started swinging together this was #1 on my Christmas list, and she's had a lot of hung studs since then for my amusement. The appeal for me is a little bit of everything that's been said in this thread. Kind of like watching a porn, only live and in living color. There's also a little bit of the cuckold in me that wants to see her get plowed by a real man who can make her squeal like I can't. Mostly though, I think it's the role playing aspect of being able to put myself in the stud's place and pretend it's my dick making her squeal like that. I get to watch her enjoy something (and she DOES enjoy it, trust me) that I can never give her, and I get to be a witness to a truly awesome display of masculinity that I would never get to see otherwise. So basically, everybody who has posted is right.

But a word of caution, though.... this can be very much a case of "be careful what you wish for." The first time we actually did it, she got a little too into it for my taste and I cut it short, causing a very bad experience for all concerned. The first time I heard her make sounds I had never heard before, I couldn't take it. But we talked it over afterward and sorted things out, and it's now a favorite practice for both of us.