Responses like this make me mad...As one who has experimented, but considers myself straight, why do many gay guys always think that we have to be gay just because we experimented? That doesn't mean we are gay. It doesn't mean we're bi. It just means we experimented. Come on Onslow. You prefer men, and that's great. I don't think that I could handle a male relationship. Obviously, if that's not my thing, I don't think I could be gay. If I like playing around with guys, yeah, maybe I could be bi. What I really hate are the labels that pop everyone into the little boxes that have to categorize us into a certain group. Sexuality doesn't work that way. We are who we are--it's a sliding scale, and it's VERY hard to to determine where on the scale we are. The extremes are rare, most people fit in somewhere in the middle.

As to the original question as to are big guys more willing to play around--yeah, probably, just because hung guys are probably a little more willing and proud to show off what they've got. Not all, of course, are exhibitionists, but with a beer or two under their belt, it doesn't take much for many of us to whip it out, and with the promise of getting off, yeah, I'd probably be willing to at least jack off, if the other dude was in shape, around my age, good looking, and decently endowed.