I have never had an issue with being around other guys nude, but I have always had a problem with getting a hard-on if I have to get undressed around people. In the lockeroom at the gym I have finally gotten over it, but in other situations I haven't. It isn't even like I want it to happen...it just does. I think it is some kind of weird feedback look in my head where I worry about a boner so much that by the time I get undressed I am well on my way to full mast if not already there.

I had a friend invite me over to go hot tubbing one night after we had gone out to eat. I said that I didn't have a bathing suit and he said no problem, you don't need one. Well little did he know it was going to be a problem when I dropped my pants in his living room with a full blown hard-on. I think the first time I was successful in either keeping my back to him or turning so he couldn't see. A few weeks later when he asked me back I felt weird about trying to be so modest around him and just came clean and said "look, this isn't anything sexual, it just happens and I can't help it." He said no big deal and that was that.

I just can't imagine being in some of the situations you guys describe because there is no way that I would be able to wall around folks or hang out and stay soft, at least at first. I think after the newness is gone and being "discovered" things would calm down, but otherwise to quote Ricky Ricardo, I think I'd have some 'splainin to do.