Why Do I Fear Becoming Involve With A Bi-Man Again?

Yes true Lex but we all live by
the rules that feel good to us...
whether we're governed by our
hearts or libido or both.

I just know when I am with a man
I want him 100% into the female sex,
not whatever catches his fancy at
the moment.

Not getting personal at all, 'k? :)

I agree. Just saying that meeting Mr or Mrs Right is never as clean-cut as we want it to be.

Oh, I'm with ya there 100%!

I don't know how I'd feel about being in a long term relationship with a bisexual girl. Even if she promised to be faithful and kept it (I'd never be in an open relationship, if I were to fool around I'd expect to get dumped, she should expect the same), I think I'd still be insecure because I'd know there's always going to be sexual desires she has that I could never fulfill. I like to be able think I at least have a sporting chance of fulfilling all my woman's desires, lol!

I'd just rather just avoid that issue, there's plenty of nice straight girls out there, but I suppose Lex is right, you don't choose who you fall in love with

Steve...a preposition???

and no "full stop"!

Tsk, tsk...what's the world coming to

or ah er...to what is the world coming?

Hmph!! I was going to post a suggestion that Rob puts a spelling and grammar checker on the site, but it seems we don't need one, we have windy instead!

Lol, ignore me. I'm hung over and grumpy today.

I've thought about suggesting a spell check also... Or better yet, is there someway to interface directly with Alex's brain? Not only could we spell-check and grammar-check everything, but we could automatically add whitty sarcasm to every post!

chuck, somebody's going to comment on your incorrect spelling of the word "witty."
:P

Oh you know what they say, Steve...
we only tease the ones we like!

Hope you're feeling better on the
'morrow!

Certainly can't tell your'e being
grumpy, though.

Funny, Gonnie!

He's said he's bisexual.
Believe him.
Many women seem to think that he'll be so happy, he'll never look at a man again.
Don't ever ever ever think that he will give up sex with men.
It has nothing to do with how wonderful you are.
It's a biological need.
If you can accept the fact that he'll be having sex with men, go for it.
Otherwise, you're probably in for a lot of heartache.

Very sage advice, Web!

It's called "bait"...

My partner is only upset if I hook up with another guy if he doesn't get to watch. Sometimes he even tries to find guys for me to fuck so he can watch.


Edit: And by upset I mean he'd say "Damn, I didn't get to see.... did you at least video tape?"

Hmm.

I have called myself bisexual in the past, and there's still a 1% left in my profile. Either I'm not and never was bisexual, or else I'm working from a different definition of "bisexual" than Webster's.

I've had sex with men... but don't anymore. Call it experimentation, call it a fetish, curiosity, circumstances, whatever. But it wasn't quite a "need", and I'm perfectly happy as I am now, and have few regrets about my past experiences.

So I guess my advice is... find out if he's bisexual like me, like Webster's definition, or in some other way. And then determine whether he's the monogamous type. I have a biological need to fuck lots of women, but I have the self control to restrict myself to the one I'm in a relationship with. In other words, talk to him.