Small flaccid and big erect

I have the problem of being relatively big (4-5.5) when flacid but just average when erect. The big flaccid and big balls really creat an impressive bulge but I am worried that there will be dissapointment when they realise I don't grow a bunch.

Well I'm about 5.5-6 when flaccid but still dont really show a bulge because my balls arent proportionately big, but i wish i grew more when erect, seems like a growth of 1.5-2" from flaccid to erect isnt v impressive...

I am a for sure grower.... Rather average when soft, but I beef up when excited! I find that this can sometimes be physically painful... for example if I am sexually active of masturbate more than once in a day, it starts to feel like the skin on my shaft is being pulled to tight. I wish I was bigger soft.

I am definately a grower. Never took the time to measure when not erect. Largeish testicles distort the effect even more. No problem though. It is compact until needed and will inflate to a decent enough size if it is blown up. In all my experiences, the women have commented they enjoyed watching it grow and thought it cool that it actually grows as much as it does.

Make a positive out of it you know.

I made a comment to myself once that i had to bite my tongue later...

I had this boyfriend long time ago that i could not feel "volume" in him when hugs happened...and i was kind of disapointed by it because felt before a man hardness against me and tought he was "different" in some way as a man..but he was great and et and when the time came for intimacy i was very very surprise that he was "normal" ...

As a young woman i was afraid of huge penis that would hurt me like tear me apart and small ones kind of "baby" penis that would not pleasure me. Never found one or another in my life until now. Than i conclude that a sleeping penis is not a true meassure what he really is when awake.

I enjoy being a grower. My current girlfriend will put my soft dick in the palm of her hand and lick the head...it grows pretty much instantly and drives me crazy :)

I'm neither large flaccid nor large erect, but it could be worse. I can at least see it without a microscope.

showers usually don't get any bigger, they just get harder. and growers usually stay hard and longer that showers.

That last sentence is pure gold!
I'm 'just one of the guys' when flacid, but any woman who gets to know me soons finds out what a difference she can make!

I've always enjoyed the reaction of someone seeing me get hard "OMG, where did THAT come from?) I'm not exactly small when I'm soft but I grow considerably. I still show a good sized bugle.

I'm a grower. I think it presents problems that showers don't have.

If it's cold, the feller is hardly there.

Other times, he's a few inches and I have to put him somewhere.

Then, on warm days, he's even longer, and I have to choose which leg he goes down.

I like the fact that when he gets excited he grows and grows, but the inconsistency when he's soft is a problem.

Brent

BJT, I'd hardly call this a problem! I have pretty much the exact erect measurements as you (6.2L, 4.75G), but really fall short in the flaccid stakes being just a bit over 3" in length. I'm not really worried about my erect size and no chick has ever complained or looked disappointed or (as far as I'm aware) left my bed disappointed.

But, when it comes to everyday things like taking a piss at a urinal or showering after the gym I do feel like less of a man. I'm sure if I was 5 foot 6, my dick would look perfectly normal, but, as with other posters, I'm 6'1" with a big frame and I don't have the big balls to add volume to my bulge, which (especially when sitting down) can look almost non-existent!

Most guys don't even know there's such a thing as growers and showers, they just think that every dick grows in similar proportions to their own. So I'm probably walking around with a bigger erect tool than many guys (though admittedly still pretty average), but looking like a guy with a small dick. So, in answer the OP, yeah, that's bloody frustrating!!

I 'm a grower and absolutely hate it! Not bad when hard (just over 8x6 round u/c) but when soft I'm really small. I don't have big balls either, and so not much of a bulge, nor much to show off in gym showers (possibly made worse by the first man I fancied in school had the HUGEST soft cock and massive low hanging balls!) Would love guys to see me a bit bigger, cos they are impressed when I'm hard and have ALWAYS wanted large low hangers! Comments?
Simon

im a gurther :D, flaccid i would say average or smaller than average, about 3in, hell my nuts hang a good inch or two lower than my dick when im flaccid.

but give it a chance and boom it gurths up to open girls hands that grip it....length is good i average about 7.5" when erect bigger sometimes when im superhorny etc, smaller when im just like yea lets do it....

although i do wish i was somewhat bigger flaccid, because my current gf even though she knows im 'big' still makes fun of it when soft, calling it her little smurf. About two other girls have seen it small and they said it was cute, then it grew and they said it was great, but man that whole cute/smurf thing sucks arse!

but i guess im happy it just GROWS!

I agree with Teddy and others: It is very frustrating being a grower times. Especially when you want people to know that your genitalia exists. As much as i'd love to (it'd probably get me a lot more attention/friends/popularity) walk around erect at about 7.75X5 (hey it's not much, but it's something) there are several laws against that. So instead I must will myself to have painful erections pressing down the leg of my jeans in order to "prove" that i have genitalia. If i stayed soft, I just wouldn't feel as noticed. But, at least i've gotten used to keeping almost daylong erections this way.