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Have you ever not wanted to have sex...

...but did it anyway? Why? For me: 1. partner wants to, I'm not in the mood 2. drunk 3. I was being paid

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Old 03-22-2006   #1 (permalink)
Sorcerer is offline
Have you ever not wanted to have sex...

...but did it anyway? Why?

For me:
1. partner wants to, I'm not in the mood
2. drunk
3. I was being paid
 
Old 03-22-2006   #2 (permalink)
alex8 is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sorcerer
...but did it anyway? Why?

For me:
1. partner wants to, I'm not in the mood
2. drunk
3. I was being paid
All of the above, plus:

4. I literally had nowhere else to go on those nights, so sleeping with the guy was the only way to make sure I wasn't out on the street.

*is careful to note that all the above was in the 18-to-22 section of his life, and has long since been exchanged for better times*
 
Old 03-22-2006   #3 (permalink)
jeff black is offline

Wow,

Alex has a dark Side, and Sorcerer is a pimp...

There have been times when I didn't want to have sex, because I was sleeping or hungover. I still did it, because one of my ex's used to put this cute pout on. She knew it drove me wild... I can't say no to her.. still can't
 
Old 03-23-2006   #4 (permalink)
novice_btm is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sorcerer
...but did it anyway? Why?

For me:
1. partner wants to, I'm not in the mood
2. drunk
3. I was being paid
I have the same 1-3, but additionally
#4. was afraid for my safety, if i didn't
 
Old 03-23-2006   #5 (permalink)
GoneA is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sorcerer
...but did it anyway? Why?

For me:
1. partner wants to, I'm not in the mood
this is mainly it for me. my last girlfriend was a sex fanatic; this was great and all but got to be a bit much. she ended badly.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #6 (permalink)
jeff black is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoneA
this is mainly it for me. my last girlfriend was a sex fanatic; this was great and all but got to be a bit much. she ended badly.
Poor GONEA... nothing worse than a girl who is a slave to the cock.
I mean, getting up every morning and there she is wanting to fuck, going to the shower and she is there to "lather you up", going to the gym and she is there to "pump some iron" with you, coming home at lunch and having a "quickie", going to the produce section and she is there helping you get the "best head" of lettuce, coming home and she is there to "toss your salad", and then finally going to bed and she is there with her legs wide open.. Just ready to FUCK!

God I hate those women
 
Old 03-23-2006   #7 (permalink)
Sorcerer is offline

Well, sometimes a man will chase you around the house backwards!
 
Old 03-23-2006   #8 (permalink)
tritonal is offline

My boyfriend was over, we were bored, and there was nothing good on TV. It was either fuck or actually leave the house.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #9 (permalink)
xlator_8 is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by novice_btm
I have the same 1-3, but additionally
#4. was afraid for my safety, if i didn't
That sounds like it was real close to rape.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #10 (permalink)
GuyanaPrince is offline
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It's BS this idea that every man's got to hard and ready, 24-7. Sure, there are plenty of times, I couldn't give a flying damn about sex. That's normal.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #11 (permalink)
Chuck64 is offline

#1 - Once or twice
#2 - Just a hot make out session, and only once
#3 - Never
#4 - I've had to sleep in my car a total of three nights my entire life. I've never been homeless in the sense that most people think.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #12 (permalink)
Gisella is offline

Start not wanting to have but was "convinced" to want and enjoy it.

No way will have sex without really wanting it - does not work for me like that.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #13 (permalink)
BronxBombshell is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by tritonal
My boyfriend was over, we were bored, and there was nothing good on TV. It was either fuck or actually leave the house.
I've been to Flint in the winter. Too many times. Leaving the house might even be more boring than staying home going through the motions of sex.

For me: Once it was because I'd gone through all the trouble of sneaking him into my house. I just did not want him going all the way home in the middle of the night. Plus, I thought it would be nice to have someone to cuddle with. But when I didn't want to have sex, it was turning into a huge scene. i was afraid I was about to get caught by my folks. So I just shut up and let him. I hope when i have kids, they're smarter.

The other times it was just my boyfriend wanted to, and I figure a man whose woman doesn't do what he thinks he needs will find a woman who will. Once it gets to a certain point, you can't help but get into it, anyway.
 
Old 03-23-2006   #14 (permalink)
novice_btm is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by xlator_8
That sounds like it was real close to rape.
Close, yes, but there's a different chapter of the story that actually covers that
 
Old 03-23-2006   #15 (permalink)
novice_btm is offline

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sorcerer
Well, sometimes a man will chase you around the house backwards!
I only did that ONCE! Sheesh!
 

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