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When did you know?

I'm still not totally sure! But I do remember looking at the sears catalog for the underwear ads. And then back to the toys!

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Old 03-15-2006   #31 (permalink)
diggerboy is offline
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I'm still not totally sure! But I do remember looking at the sears catalog for the underwear ads. And then back to the toys!
 
Old 03-15-2006   #32 (permalink)
ChuckRich is offline

The men's ads or the women's.... or the children's?
 
Old 03-15-2006   #33 (permalink)
baguy4fun is offline

There are two questions, really. When did I know? And when did I admit it?

I knew probably a little at 7-8 when a friend and I did a lot of show and tell and i loved looking at his pretty little butt and fingering the hole.

Fast forward to 13-14 in junior high, and I can still remember the boys in my gym classes -- from the super hung dude (he knocked up a girl by 9th grade) to the late bloomer who dressed next to me and had the smallest cock i'd seen and no hair. Felt real sorry for him but he got his growth spurt in high school and then didn't have a problem.

I continued through college knowing I loved gay porn and even made trips to the baths back in the 70s. Didn't do much but look, but I knew I was interested, but I couldn't admit it to anyone.

Got married shortly after and hoped marriage would "cure" me. Wrong. Totally wrong. Made it so much the worse, because I had to really hide it more.

Came out after about a dozen years or marriage, and basically everyone knows. At least it's in the open again, though I haven't really acted upon it much, and she's totally cool.
 
Old 03-15-2006   #34 (permalink)
chrispy is offline

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Originally Posted by jeff black
To all the people in the forum... this question may have been done... but I didn't want to look .

I have been talking to a few people lately (gay, bi, and straight) about the time when they realized they were the sexual orientation they are now. I guess this is more aimed at people who are gay and bi.. but I am sure that some straight people in here may have thought about homosexuality and some homosexuals who have thought about heterosexuality.

So if you are comfortable sharing... When did you realize that you were the sexual orientation you are now??
I did not put a word on it until I was 11 or so, but I have known I was attracted to men since at least 3 - 4. It's funny, even though I was raised in an Italian Catholic home, it was never an issue for me...the only "problem" I have ever had with being gay was other peoples' reactions. Even then, I was lucky; the one person who I was most nervous about telling -- my older sister -- already knew, and it did not make any difference to her, at all...

...come to think of it, she is much more of a gay man than even I am (and that is pretty damn gay!). Thanks for asking...
 
Old 03-15-2006   #35 (permalink)
UniDude is offline

Have had an attraction for the same sex since I was probably 6 or so. First memories of that anyway.
 
Old 03-16-2006   #36 (permalink)
findfirefox is offline

I have always known, but it took me untill i was about 14 to come to full terms with it and be able to tell people about it. I never told my parents untill I was going to be able to move out, my step-dad and I had some conflicts...

I beleve the first quote I heard that was anti-gay was "if anyone in this house is gay I'm cutting it off." from there it just got worse...
 
Old 03-16-2006   #37 (permalink)
Sorcerer is offline

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Originally Posted by GoneA
okay you're my new boyfriend now
Wanna be my next novel? It's quite a ride...
 
Old 03-16-2006   #38 (permalink)
juice is offline

For as long as I can remember I've loved girls. Girls girls girls. Even though I've had a threesome with my best bud and my girl, there was no attraction. We even talked about it later and I was like "Dude. Sorry, no attraction."
He's straight, I'm straight, my girl's straight, it was just lust.
I see other guy's penis's all the time being in the locker room and I'm never attracted to them.

I like pussy too much.
 
Old 03-16-2006   #39 (permalink)
GoneA is offline

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Originally Posted by Sorcerer
Wanna be my next novel? It's quite a ride...

ooh please, ooh please, ooooh please!!!! (no really, please?)
 
Old 03-17-2006   #40 (permalink)
Sorcerer is offline

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Originally Posted by GoneA
ooh please, ooh please, ooooh please!!!! (no really, please?)
Well, it's kinda like "Shooter" in Basic Instinct...
 
Old 03-17-2006   #41 (permalink)
BigPoppaFury is offline

When I was about 4 I had a girl show me how she used to rub her pussy against her teddy bear. That was the first time I'd seen a pussy and the first time I remember getting a boner. Since then female masturbation and girls that aren't shy have been two big turn ons. Go figure! I knew it was something that I wanted to do something with, I was fascinated with it, and as time went on me and the girl got through some experiences that kids in single figure ages shouldn't even be thinking about. Basically from that moment on I was and still am utterly enchanted by pussy.
 
Old 03-17-2006   #42 (permalink)
GoneA is offline

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Originally Posted by Sorcerer
Well, it's kinda like "Shooter" in Basic Instinct...

hahaha, no prob
 
Old 03-18-2006   #43 (permalink)
Spladle is offline
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Originally Posted by GoneA
despite my sincerest efforts, i think i'm still straight
Same here.
 
Old 03-18-2006   #44 (permalink)
Pye
Pye is offline

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Originally Posted by Spladle
Same here.
you just haven't met the right man
 
Old 03-19-2006   #45 (permalink)
Spladle is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Pye
you just haven't met the right man
This is correct.
 

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