inquiringmind: Amen Sudas,

Preach it, brother! Preach it! I think many times it is easier to lump everyone into groups, and if we have had more than one negative experience with a person of a certain type, it is easy to go there. I guess I did that with the short guy rant I had earlier. I do have to say that I also have some very wonderful, funny ,short male friends who have beaucoups women. I think it is your attitude also. *I was speaking from a particular situation I am experiencing right now. There is a guy who I think is great but I am not trying to be in a relationship with him. He is pushing frantically and I know he will blow up when I tell him I am not feelin' it. *
I love having male friends who I can bounce *ideas and info back and forth with .I get many of my insights from *guys about the behavior of other guys. I am not discounting anyones's real pain .I feel for them. I also know that for some individuals it is easier to find some one that it is for others. But it gets really old walking on egg shells with someone no matter what the reason.

Inquiring mind


P.S. On the Black man/Black woman thing I can see with the shortage of eligible black men the sensitivity but there are many reasons for people falling for one another , So one must keep the faith ( I am not going to dare say,"Keep hope alive! ")
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