sudas: You know what the tall women say: "It's not fair when taller men date short women- who's left for us?" Black women say the same thing about Black men who date outside their race. I guess they're not interested in dating White men; same thing with tall women and short men.

It is possible for some people to look past the physical. But a woman has to face her peers. Who wants to be mocked? On the other hand, women may be more likely to look beyond the physical: balding, ugly, etc. Guys may ask a good-looking woman "why are you with that guy?"

All I can say is don't fall into angry-short-guy-with-attitude. The same applies for angry-Black-woman-with-attitude. Confidence, smiling and a friendly disposition should open doors.