Yowsers: AnonyMs - If i was gay, sure, i would go out with Mike. Simply b/c he's a cool person, who i could trust and have fun with. Qualities that I'm lucky enough to have in Jackie, my girl friend.

It seems to me all it comes down to attraction. Dating sites may seem to be an act of desperation, but for Mike it's a perfectly reasonable route. He's tried meeting people at bars, book stores, the laundry mat, etc. museums. Over and over, he gets rejected. No one seems to find him attractive enough to bother to looking deeper into the great person he is. . .

The physisal doesn't last is true, but how many people have you broken up with b/c of something superficial. How many times have you seen a tall girl w/ a short guy? In sum, I'll never really know why Mike has been single all these years, as the old saying goes, until you walked in another person'shoes. . .