GreenEyes: [quote author=7by6etC link=board=women;num=1063063652;start=0#6 date=09/08/03 at 17:14:42]I understand it too...sex for me is not something I just "give away" to people...we were fairly good friends who had that develop...and then..we just weren't good friends anymore...no hard feelings on either side.

Ah well...as John Michael Montgomery said..."Life's a dance you learn as you go"...

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So true and I am one that wants to dance through life!

I do have to admit that when I reached my 30's it was easier for me to give sex away. To just see sex as sex. No offense but I saw it like a man meaning the physical act without the emotion. (must add not all men are like this)

Now I suppose after being in a near marriage experience and having several years to float about I would want one.

Hence why this one guy I am not sure what his intentions are. We do get along but at the same time he doesn't even know. Again the committment phobic thing. I suppose the feeling one has of being trapped in something they really don't want. I know that scares the shit out of me. I just want to make sure it is right for the rest of my life or his.