7x6andchg: That's what I am saying - she broke it off, and I tried, quite valiantly, to continue to be friends...but it seemed like the "emotional baggage" of our sexual relations made it impossible for her.

I don't mean to make it sound at all like she was the problem - it just didn't fit into her idea of what could happen next...so we drifted apart (cue Journey)...

Paul