awellhungboi: I was wondering something along these same lines. The other day I went in this cafe/market where I stop in after work. Standing there was this girl I kind of know. I said Hi, and smiled, and she went "Hi," and smiled back, and looked very overtly straight at my crotch. I barely know her--she dogsat for me last Xmas, but she is very good friends with this girl I used to go out with, (who is a real size queen).

So is this 'Sex in the City' stereotype real? If women have been with a larger man, do they really chit-chat about it with girlfriends over lunch? Or maybe this woman was snooping when she dogsat for me, and came across my box of magnums. Or maybe she just thought I looked good and decided to take a peek. Who knows. It's a pretty trivial thing, but it always makes me curious when something like that happens. "What do you know, and when did you know it?" sort of feeling.