I had a long-distance relationship for more than a year. We were only 150 miles from each other and meet every few weeks, but the distance and other factors took a toll on us and we are on hold. She wants to get back together, but I know that it will not work. What do you do? Tell him that you want QUALITY time. I don't care if it is only one hour or a few days, you need to spend some time together or you will start to resent his tying you down and drift. If he loves you, he should make concessions.