ORCABOMBER: Damn, this topic isn't half bad.. shame I had to arrive near the end. :-/

Okay, well, my personal opinion is that, well as a virgin of 21 I don't really believe in "saving myself", mainly because I don't really 'feel' like I want to be married. Not to say that I have no faith, but I associate the words "God" and "bastard" pretty often. No offence to people with stronger faith.

Would that mean I'd never abstain? Well, I'm a very sensible person. I mean, if you can sleep over at a woman's house and both be as horny as fung for different reasons and NOT get up to something because she's with someone else, THAT is a good amount of self control, if at least for moral reasons. If I was with someone I loved, well, it's down to her really. I have no confidence on such issues. :-[

Mind you, saying that, one thing I don't like, is that for a guy, well, it's pretty easy to get horny. I sometimes wish, I didn't have those feelings, because I hate lusting for the unobtainable, it makes me feel stupid and generally reduces my self-persona to "go back under that rock" status.

I mean, do you ever get a glow down your arms and your legs and over your stomach and your palms just sweated up and your glowing with sexual energy? That's my horny and I'm slowly beginning to hate it!

I have a hunch it's just hormonal but I feel it getting stronger but it's annoying to me and makes me feel like I'm splitting from what I "am". Okay, okay, hard to explain and I'm starting to rant, so I'll stop. But hey, I know the "S" in LPSG is there for a reason,. :D