Tender: [quote author=GreenEyes link=board=women;num=1064768529;start=20#37 date=10/09/03 at 02

19]Again I was blessed that I was in love when I lost mine. *I think it made it so much more special. *[/quote]
i didnt find it a blessing at all...
for me it just hurt too much when the relationship ended.
would have been easier if it were just a fun thing for my first time, instead of an emotional thing. i guess i didnt juggle the two together well...
depends on the person maybe.
but then on the other hand, well i cared alot for him, so i glad it wasnt just anyone ...
i know! double talk... :-/
Tender