Tender: [quote author=Valkyrie link=board=women;num=1064768529;start=20#27 date=10/07/03 at 02
40]Maybe it's a cultural issue - but I've never understood the whole thing about "waiting until I'm married"...
/Val *[/quote]
for me it was a religious issue.
and the fact that yeah i messed up and did it... have huge regrets,,,
and well it can really ruin a good relationship.
it just involves alot more than just 'sex'.
to me there has to be the emotional and part of that is knowing he loves me enough to have made that commitiment. its not something i want to give to just anyone...
IMHO it is better to be married first.
like i said, i still regret it :'(
sure others here have as well...