namodomok: Have you tried different positions guys (what am I saying? We're men, of course you've tried them all...) I mean with my wife, it's easier if she's on top, then she has control of how deep and fast she wants to go. Also, getting it from behind while lying on her side seems to work. Missionary seems to be the one that hurts the most. But then again I'm not as big as most of you guys....That's my 2 cents....don't know if it will help!