shortchanged: Well.....you can decide to have children(i assume you don't already), because in my case before we divorced there was a definite loosening of the vagina after childbirth. Might be just what you bigger guys need to even things up a bit!
[quote author=Doubtless_Mouse link=board=women;num=1078279900;start=0#3 date=03/06/04 at 05
16]Actually this is a good question. *I have been married for going on 11 years, and my wife tells me it has been hurting for 11 years. *We have great sex, but almost always she hurts afterwards (rubbed raw). *We too have tried lubes but it didn't help. *I fit where I need to fit, but for some reason it hurts after the fact. *I understand the mechanics of it, but haven't been able to figure out what to do. *Any suggestions would be welcome here as well.[/quote]