bigguy: I'm not sure what I expect, but I figured this was a good place to post for help.

I've been with my girl for nine years now, yet every time we have sex, it hurts. *No matter what the foreplay, lube, etc. we've used. *We've tried astroglide, KY, etc. *No luck. *Over time, it's made her more reluctant to have sex. *She finds it pleasurable, but after nine years she's tired of being sore the next day. *

Any ideas or suggestions? *I've asked her to speak to her gynecologist about it, but so far she's been "too embarrassed". *