grantstephens: Obviously I'm not a woman thingsteal, but I can tell about my experience with my wife.

My wife has no prob when I kiss her after going down on her either before, during, and after sex. She really enjoys the attention I lavish on her clitoris (the only purpose of a clitoris is pleasure) and she also has no problem (TMJ aside) going down on me during intercourse.

After I cum is a different story though. I admit that I don't go down on my wife after - I got to get over that, because I bet that would totally turn her on, but I'm usually catching my breath. So this would be another question to the ladies I guess - do you like your man to go down on you after he cums?