i'm uncut, got a question or 2 or 3 or 4

i new to this site and i am a 19 year old black male from charleston, south carolina, hence the name. anyway i have some questions i dont feel comfortable asking anyone i know.

first of all i'm not as big as i though i was: about 7' limp and 10' hard but i am uncircumcised and almost every gal i have been with has backed down because my penis looked "funny" and "weird" . so i have only been with 2 different gals. anyone have any suggestions of what i can do about this without getting circumcised because i know it will hurt 10 times more at this age.

secoondly, will an uncut penis affect being able to make a woman pregnant, not that i'm tryin to make kids this young but i want to some day about 10 or 15 years from now. and i dont plan to have a condom on when i do it but it seems to me that if i go in with out a condom my foreskin will be pulled al the way back and split at the head(ouch,bloody,pain). the reason i say this is because when i am erect the skin is already pulled halfway back because it is so tight,sometimes its so tight i think its gonna bust . is there a chance this will happen?

third, is there any advantages or disadvantages to being uncircumcised other than the extra hygene? i wash it THOROUGHLY 3 times in the shower and i shower at least 1 time a day but is there anything else?the only clear advantage i see is that i dont need lube to masturbate, i can get hard and get straight to it but is there anymore pros and cons?

do people have growing pains in there penis's? because i used to get sharp pains in mine when i was starting puberty and i was wondering what i could be

thanks for the help

I think you'll be a very happy kid the day you meet a woman who likes you for who you are and who doesn't have any immature hangups about maleness. It's the most any of us can hope for. If you're going to college, or live in a college town, you might have better luck. Just be sure to keep yourself clean.

Well, to start, that is very big! Well, there is nothing weird about an uncircumsized penis. I am uncircumsized, and there isn't anything weird about it. Some people have more foreskin than others, but no big deal.
For your secondly, no, a foreskin CANNOT affect pregnancy. Think about it. How did people 200 years ago consieve? They didn't have circumsizion then! Also, when you put a condom on, don't pull the foreskin all the way back. go about 1/2 to 2/3 back. The condom will THEN pull it back all the way.
Personally, I don't see any advantages to being circumsized. I don't ever have to wash my penis in the shower, and I never get the smigma or whatever it is in there.
The growing pains? Not sure. I didn't have any, but everyone is different. :)
Hope all that is helpful! :D:D:D

They didn't? That will come as a shock to the Jews; they claim that they've been circumcising their sons for four thousand years!

Blah blah blah. Shut up.

Really? I didn't know that... Well, maybe they did, but otherwise, no one else did... I think. :D

I was uncircumcised until I was 50 and then had it done. To me it was the best thing and wished I had done it 35 years ago. It felt much better afterwards and a lot more sentive.

Hmmm. I would never circumsize myself, or have someone do it to me! :D I just don't like the thought of it. It seems like a mutilation of yourself. :)

but thats my problem mfoly, when i can only put the skin back to the base of my head cuz that little strand of flesh or whatever is still attaching the skin to the head and i heard that is supposed to automatically unattach itself during puberty or is that true?

The strand at the bottom of the head near the pee-hole is your frenulum, designed to pull the foreskin back when in stand-by mode, and it's supposed to be there. Occasionally it is too short and can break ("snapping your banjo string").

move to a more civilized area.

no

not unless you get leprosy of the dick, no

extra hygiene? I imagine we all wash our dicks the same way, the only difference is uncut guys have to pull it back to complete the job. anyways, the obvious advantages are that all your penile nerves are intact and you won't get stretchmarks or skin bridges or other weird shit on your dick.

haha no, we all got one of those, your foreskin ain't supposed to retract any further than that

I'm uncut and have the "strand at the bottom" thing an all. It's no problem, man. Sounds from ur description that the skin is tight. U need to loosen it up by working it more backward (use some Palmers cocoa butter). Or better still work it back a lot during showering (and while getting it all clean underneath).

To avoid getting her pregnant (cause guys shouldn't just rely on the girl to take the pill) and to avoid STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) use a condom. I'd advise pulling the foreskin all the way back before rolling the condom on. U can get Trojan - XL at the local Walmart.

As for that pain thing, i don't know what that was about. If it comes back, i'd have it checked out. Don't sweat the women who think it odd looking, just as many will be intrigued. It's way better tho being uncut.

Finally, as with any "weapon" use it with care.

I had sex with a guy who was un-cut and lemme tell you... there is something really amazing feeling about having that kind of penis inside you. I really can't explain it other than to say when we started getting busy, I was like "ooooo, this is new! ok... please keep going... don't stop..."

well dam mslulu , you made me feel a whole lot better. and doctor rock, SC is perfectly civilized. so are yall saying that it wont hurt if that little piece of flesh under the head breaks ? and will the sensation still be tha same for the gal like what mslulu was saying with a condom? cuz during sex , my biggest turn on is knowing that i am getting the girl off. and i guess they say it looks weird cuz of all the extra veins u can see that look more exaggerated, is this what causes that sensationn for females?

if the ole banjo cord (or frenulum as it's known) tears it would be mighty painful!
that's probably one of the parts with the most nerve endings on your entire body

but it's not likely to give you a problem, just use it as nature intended

some guys have problems with having a frenulum that's too short, which can get stressed during retraction and occasionaly can get injured, and there are extreme cases where some doctors recommend surgery to modify it to fit better
( but not circumcision)