Question about lube, different types Hello,
I have a few questions on lube, and can't find all the answers by searching so I am just going to ask.
Ok my girlfriend and I have tried pretty much all the water based lubes that are available at the local store. The problem is if we have sex for extended periods of time, or even short times but extremely fast thrusting it gets a little dry. All the lubes we tried only work for a few minutes at best, and its really a mood killer to have to pull out and relube several times. We have tried Astroglide, KY (all the different kinds the store had, liquid, gel, jelly, warming) and one other brand. Some were better than others, but none were even close to what we were hoping for.
It's almost like the lube gets stickier once it heats up or has been on for a few minutes, which is worse than not even using lube.
We don't use condoms for birthcontrol so I'm not opposed to an oil based lube, are they better/longer lasting? The local store doesn't sell oil based I'm guessing because the fear someone would use it with condoms, but there are sex shops around and I know they have lots of different kinds.
Also do the oil based ones stain? I know the water based kinds don't even show up once they dry, would oil based ?
Are there other types besides water/oil based?
If you all have any to recomend, or any favorites I'd appreciate it.
Thanks in advance,
Lucky |