Problems with Gay guys

Dr Rock · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by Captain_hung

This is just my view point but i'd have to say that things like hero parades tend to aggravate people because it kinda forces the issue on people who otherwise wouldnt care less.

pretty sure that's the idea, chief

invisibleman · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by SL65///AMG

Did anyone ever get what they want by being that way? Wouldnt some recognize that there are very few people that will actually listen to someone who is continually complaining about something?

The gay movement is a recent thing (within the last 50 years) so wouldnt some people expect it to not be accepted easily? Oh right.. its natural if you want it to be.. ok.

Well, I think that maybe people don't want to be bullied or overshadowed. Every time, you have a marriage or take a girl out to the prom--it is a Straight Pride event. When you can hold your girlfriend's hand in public and kiss a girl without fear of getting shot by skinheads or black gangs or crazy youth--it is a Straight flag you fly. The really trippy question you guys should be answering is: There many closeted gay people marrying straight. Do you really know your partner well-enough to know that maybe your man or woman may actually have gay tendencies? What kind of marriage is that? I think that I would hate it if I were bullied into marrying a woman because it would be socially acceptable. Maybe these closeted individuals actually resent openly gay people because the closeted ones didn't feel or never felt free to be themselves. There are a lot of things people don't actually notice or even care to ask when you are hetero. But people are very deep spirits, you don't get to know them by skating on the ice, you have to swim and explore the lake. Ask questions. Be prepared for answers you may not want to hear. This means everybody. Get to know those characters well. Stereotypes are for suckers.

Lex · 12-19-2005

This is a complicated issue. I identify as QUEER--I like both men and women and I have both straight and gay/bi/queer friends with whom I am close. I agree 100% with DMW--I don't want to ever go past someone's comfort zone and I expect my limits to be respected at all times as well. I have never understood the whole "Conquering the Straight Guy" fetish.

Matthew · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by SL65///AMG

Ok fagz, enough.. You are clearly disappointed that I wont open my cheeks for you.... blah, blah, blah

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Originally Posted by SL65///AMG

Zora.. thank you.. Im not being antagonistic here at all.. really.

hahaha

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Pappy · 12-19-2005

Do you straight guys think that us gay guys would want to suck on a dick that has been marinated in pussy juice(no offense ladies)?? If the packaging was appealing enough, maybe, but it's doubtful.

dlcs · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by Pappy

Do you straight guys think that us gay guys would want to suck on a dick that has been marinated in pussy juice(no offense ladies)?? If the packaging was appealing enough, maybe, but it's doubtful.

Pappy, it's hard to be offended when you're laughing your ass off. Thanks for that one... heh heh heh *snort*

Honestly, that seems to be the idea that (sadly) a lot of straight men have, that gay men find them SOOOOOO appealing they just can't control themselves.
Has anyone really gotten a good look at the majority of straight men nowadays? They're trying so hard to look "manly" that they end up crossing the supposed "gay" image line. Then they complain when they get hit on. Um, yeah?

GoneA · 12-19-2005

i hadn't noticed.

invisibleman · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by dlcs

Pappy, it's hard to be offended when you're laughing your ass off. Thanks for that one... heh heh heh *snort*

Honestly, that seems to be the idea that (sadly) a lot of straight men have, that gay men find them SOOOOOO appealing they just can't control themselves.
Has anyone really gotten a good look at the majority of straight men nowadays? They're trying so hard to look "manly" that they end up crossing the supposed "gay" image line. Then they complain when they get hit on. Um, yeah?

It is nice to know how straight men feel about gay men. So, I can avoid the uptight ones as possible friends (not fuck buddies). I have plenty of straight male friends and they don't ever worry about me coming on to them. Some of these guys are really handsome...and very personable.

rawbone8 · 12-19-2005

I'm 100% straight and have gay friends and no one ever has the slightest worries about unwanted attention or harrassment, and the most valued attribute that's common among friends is a sense of fucking humour

some guy comes to a large penis forum that has a higher population of gays than the general population ( go figure!!) and then swaggers about with manly warnings

methinks thou doth protest too much — Will (YUM!) Shake Spear

BBB2.5 · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by SL65///AMG

I'm starting this topic b/c I'm feeling some of its implications on this site & in my life.

I'm wondering if guys who we identify as "gay" are actually limited in their acceptence of straight people, both women and other guys. This is what I mean: Why is there a need for grandstanding at every opportunity you get?

No I know its not all of you.. but seriously... I dont run around harrassing you into being straight. I dont run around with a Straight pride flag on... I'm dont feel the need to scream at the top of my lungs that I am straight.. I enjoy the feeling of a vagina.. the smell of a womans body and her soft skin more than the Jeep like appearance of a man.

So what is this about? Is this the cause of so many of our problems in the world? So I guess I'm asking this. Are we straight men so alienated from ourselves and others, that we've created this limited view of the world?

Patiently awaiting an answer to this double standard.. As my preventative measure in the other section has obviously offended some of you.

Ive talked to gay people before that had absolutely no interest in letting the world know.. and Ive seen some that feel they need to walk down the street making loud proclamations.. dont get it at all. Enlighten my fat-ass. Thanks.

I hate these type of questions, as they tend to bring out the worse in peoples views. With that said, being a Gay man myself. I have never tried to convert a straight man into a gay man. That is so rediculous. If a person has even the slightest bit of intelect. They will know that it's not possiable. That would be like a girl trying to convert me.....well that will never happen. Now if you are being hit on by gay men, that does not mean that they are trying to convert you. It just means that some of them find you sexually attractive. I feel that you must be sending them some kind of message through chatting or even through body language. That you might be intrested in going there. It's human nature to be on the prowl, especially if the hunted could be hiding within his own self.....

:p

dlcs · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by BBB2.5

I hate these type of questions, as they tend to bring out the worse in peoples views. With that said, being a Gay man myself. I have never tried to convert a straight man into a gay man. That is so rediculous. If a person has even the slightest bit of intelect. They will know that it's not possiable. That would be like a girl trying to convert me.....well that will never happen.
:p

Well, shit, there go my plans for Christmas. :D (kidding, of course)

How often do you run across the "evangelical crotch" types?

Danceswithlamps · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by dlcs

Pappy, it's hard to be offended when you're laughing your ass off. Thanks for that one... heh heh heh *snort*

Honestly, that seems to be the idea that (sadly) a lot of straight men have, that gay men find them SOOOOOO appealing they just can't control themselves.
Has anyone really gotten a good look at the majority of straight men nowadays? They're trying so hard to look "manly" that they end up crossing the supposed "gay" image line. Then they complain when they get hit on. Um, yeah?

Amen sista! :D Hahaha.

Anywhoo, it does make sense. All of these "family oriented-superstraight" men are either A) to busy working on their abs to even notice anything, and then there are the other type B) the Bear (hairy everywhere) who don't get hit on (well, maybe they do). I think if you are stressing out about being hit on by a gay man, well, then your thinking about it too much! If you don't want to get hit on, then, stop going to where ever you are going to that you are always getting hit on. There really isn't any way to get away from homosexual people. They are just like anyone else...

Dr Rock · 12-19-2005

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Originally Posted by dlcs

Has anyone really gotten a good look at the majority of straight men nowadays? They're trying so hard to look "manly" that they end up crossing the supposed "gay" image line.

not to mention most of them are fucking ugly

Pappy · 12-20-2005

Amen Brother, Amen!!!!

madame_zora · 12-20-2005

No shit! I think that's why I liked "Queer Eye" so much, it left me hopeful that straight guys might learn something.

Problems with Gay guys

Originally Posted by Captain_hung This is just my view point but i'd have to say that things like hero parades tend to aggravate people because it kinda forces the issue on people who otherwise wouldnt