[quote author=powerss link=board=youth;num=1054971896;start=0#0 date=06/07/03 at 00:40:08]

"... she touched me sexually.

Now, was I just abused, or was it simply nothing because I'm over 18 and it was somewhat mutual? I feel very strange, both at myself because I somewhat enjoyed the experience but wish it hadn't happened..."

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Enough said for me to determine that while it was not "abuse" in and of itself, it was indeed "inappropriate behavior" on her part for having returned a second time (within mere moments obvioiusly) and then do what she did..whether you were by that time aroused or not...(and what man wouldn't have been?)

The fact you felt "uncomfortable" from this experience is a signal though to you that something wasn't right about this and I would only suggest you take this as a lesson for the future...Stand your ground and if you don't like ANY unwelcomed "advance" ...then say so!

While flattering to be sure, a woman's attention should be welcomed by the man, not just tolerated out of some social politeness. The posh environment you were in as well also (perhaps) complicated your ability to think fast and react as you would have otherwise-- (being shocked and taken by surprise).

Don't let this experience "rattle you" as much as alert you that experiences like this happen in life. You need to be in touch with your inner self to make the judgment call that represents how YOU feel during these times.

Again, if this woman's advances (under those circumstances) weren't welcomed, you should have told her so! --then and there.

Fancy house or not---I personally wouldn't have been too overly impressed! And, I KNOW I wouldn't go back.