Longhornjok: I have an older brother (32) and a younger one (24) and they're both VWE, but the older (str8) one is such a tightass he practically blushes if I walk through the apartment in boxers, so I wouldn't expect to see him here any time soon. My younger brother is not nearly as uptight so maybe I'll send him this way... or maybe he's lurking here now! ;)