Tapster,

I agree about staying inside soft ... one great advantage if being big soft is never slipping out until I want to slip out ;).

In my case at my peak I had the ability (and occasionally still have it even at 53) pretty often, when very worked up, to stay hard, and in fact even to swell up to over my usual size (10 x 7) after the first ejaculation. A nil refractory period.

But what I'm less clear on is how you manage to acheive penetration at all unless you are fully hard or very near it. The more the girth, especially the bigger your glans, the more pressure is needed ... in my case even in the context of a long marriage ... I have to be good and strong to work my way in at all. I would have thought it must be like that for you.

Have you ever taken yourself to a urologist? ... it just sounds to me that with a 9.5" soft penis your erection may not be quite at its full potential even at 11 x 7 .. it would be good to know that you were more consistently filling that erectile capacity out to the max.