tapster: I'm with DanDMan here. I'm 41 and a shower at around 9.5 x 6 and 11 x 7 erect. Don't always get fully hard and sometimes don't stay hard for long periods. Depends on the woman and how excited I am - the better and more the forplay the harder and longer. Having said that, with my size I can easily get a woman off when soft, so women sometimes keep fucking me on top after I'vecome and gone soft.