ChgoBigDikLuvr: As a gay man who loves to perform oral sex on well-endowed men for extended, marathon suck sessions, I encourage the man I'm sucking to just kick back, relax, and enjoy the pleasure instead of trying to cum. I reassure him that the means (the cocksucking) is as, if not more, pleasurable than the end (the orgasm). This often takes the pressure off of him to try to ejaculate, and the orgasm comes much more spontaneously. If only more guys would appreciate the process, and not just the outcome.