Admiring Guy in Locker Room

I'm curious so I look at everything! I once gave a guy a good compliment on his balls. He looked at me and said you got a nice package but you need to work out your abs. Last time I did that!

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KinkGuy'
You are my newest best friend!:)

The latest is that I was at another location of the Health Club and he saw me there (last time I saw him was at another one) and he got all animated when he saw me. He said outloud, "Hey! You're a long way from home!" while he was laying on the chaise lounge naked.

I just smiled on my way into the steam room and said, "Yup" even though that location is closer to my house. He left after that, but it was nice that he noticed me. I also noticed that he doesn't even work out when he comes to the Club, he just does the steam room, sauna and whirlpool thing. Lucky us!

I'm going to chat him up the next time I see him. I'll keep y'all posted!

For those of you following the saga (thanks for the private messages over the past few months inquiring about this!), I gave up cruising him per se, and have turned our interactions into "news and weather" type conversations. He's a very nice man named Bob and I've heard him talking to a few guys about his wife and kids and the classes that he teaches at the Health Club.

Today, I was in the whirlpool and Bob came in. He said the usual, "Hi" to me and asked how I was doing. A few minutes later, I was in the sauna and he came in. I said, "There he is...the man who's always so nice to me!” He said, "Well, I try to be nice to everyone..." and I said what I've wanted to say to him for months: "Well, you're nice to me despite my stalking your big cock and balls…hahahaha!” He didn't even miss a beat and said, "Oh, it's all good...it's very flattering...we are what we are and we should all be nice to each other!” I said, "Yeah, I know...women hit on me all the time and I have no use for them.” He giggled, and then someone came into the sauna and we stopped chatting and he left a few minutes later.

So I did it! I finally spoke to him about my obsession with him and his 5 inch flaccid cock and egg-sized balls. So, even though I'm SURE he knows I was interested in him sexually before, I put it out there and can continue my cordially friendship with him. If he has the inclination to go any other route with our interactions, it's up to him.

I'm glad he's such a nice man and handled this so cordially!

I'm glad for you that it has turned into a semi-friendship. It sounds like he is a nice guy, although the way you said it in your post, "...the man who's always so nice to me," sounds a bit unusual. Hope you enjoy the friendship.

Good luck. I hope everything works out well for you.

I belonged to a health club when I lived in Birmingham, although I have to admit I did so more to look at the men than to work out. Anyway, there was this one particular good-looking dude who always worked out in short nylon shorts with nothing underneath. More than one time the head of his cock was exposed. He seemed to enjoy knowing it was in view however did not seem interested in me even when I tried to strike up a conversation. That's OK though - I was cruised by some that I wasn't interested in sexually.

An interesting story I'm just now telling, happened to me. There was one instructor who was always telling "queer" and "faggot" jokes as if he hated gays. I had placed a classified ad in the Advocate with a faux name at a post office box and guess who I got a letter from? He even enclosed a nude picture of himself. Because of his attitude, I wrote back and told him that I knew who he was because I went to the health club but wouldn't "out" him if he would quit being so homophobic. Whether he changed his talk or not I don't know. My membership expired shortly afterwards but I bet to this day he still wonders who I was. How 'bout it, Cliff?

How nice for You.... hang in there u never know!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I thought of telling Bob about this site, but then he'd see the post I have on here about him! LOL ... THAT would put me into stalker status, I think. Or maybe I should have put a note on his locker telling him of the URL of LPSG and hope he signs up and posts HARD pics. I've still lever seen him hard, only expanded a bit after washing in the shower.

Mattness,
Sounds like this guy enjoys being appreciated and you did just that. And I'm sure your honesty and sincerety, without being rude or too pushy will most likely continue a cordial friendship with him. You may both get what you want - he gets the attention and you get to enjoy the veiw. Enjoy your new friendship.
~RC

You met a guy who is open and friendly. I think he does not desire sex but just a friend. You should keep it at that now

Exactly my mindset. I tried to get to know him on a sexual level and it didn't work. Now we're just steam/sauna/whirlpool buddies! It's all good!