Admiring Guy in Locker Room

Fantasies makes my sexual imagination much more satisfying. There are some hot men out there regardless of sexual orientation. There's nothing wrong with that, Mattness. I remember back in the day when I fell in love with a straight guy who I thought was gay. I misread his body language thinking that he was interested. I was the only one interested. He was wondering why I was looking at him. I misread puzzlement with sexual excitement. I groped him. He said that he was flattered that I wanted to jump his bone but said that he even be more flattered if it were a woman doing the groping. I apologized. We talked about how we were reacting. He thought that it was interesting psychologically. I even told him--Have you ever looked at a picture of a guy fighting up close and compared it to another picture of a guy with a "fuck face" or "having an orgasm"? They kinda resemble the other. He then told me only a gay dude would think of something crazy like that. We laughed.

I can't believe you call him "Hillbilly Boy." You gotta bring this thing to closure, not only for your sexual desire but also for your readership.

I think he's teasing you. If you feign disinterest, I bet things will heat up from his side.

Haha, yeah "Hillbilly Boy" is kinda rude. But he's got that biker look with the ponytail, lol. Hey, it's a term of endearment, no malice intended. :p I'm going to start chatting him up and see where it goes...he seems very friendly.

You really want to sample this guys wares? Be around him at the club as often as possible, tease him, reveal your goods, be open in your nudity and comfortable naked in front of him. Casual, relaxed and NOT NEEDY. Act as if you are always this relaxed and comfortable around other nude men. He'll become, in very short order, the one doing the pursuing...which changes the balance of power. hehe.

As a straight guy answering one of your first questions, I would have no problem at all receiving a compliment about my cock, the fact that the guy is in there at all shows that he wants people to admire it. Try and drop in a compliment, I think that's the clearest signal you could give to the guy and if you don't get much of a response then let it go and just admire the view in future

Great advice, guy...appreciate your str8 point of view and open-mindedness without judging.

I'm gonna do this as well as what was mentioned above -- just be comfy around him naked, etc.

I agree that a lot of straight guys enjoy getting admiring looks from gay guys in the locker rooms - myself included.

Also, no worries about staring at the hillbilly dude or even paying him a compliment - if he didbn't want the attention, he would have the shower curtain closed and change under a towel.

My view is that he is enjoying putting on the show as much as you are enjoying watching it. Keep on enjoying it.

I agree with the other gfuys who have suggested talking to him - make it something non-sexual first "great weather..." or "have you seen the new membership prices...". This way, if he is interested, you'll soon find out, if he isn't, you'll work it out and still be able to go on enjoying the show - Good luck

Chris :p

I wonder what the outcome was? I hate not knowing the ending!

I agree with "HungMuscle"s advice. I have been in this situation before and this is exactly what has worked for me. AND YOU'D BETTER COME BACK WITH A FULL REPORT.:D

edit: Just read that you had your next encounter without an "interested" response. I would leave it there and do as you suggested. Conversation isn't exactly what you were looking for. But there's something in making a new friend too. He does sound like someone who just likes to show off. You are to be admired for your tact.

case in point- I have a friend- not bad looking, but a definite 'grower' not a 'shower' but he has HUGE balls (each the size of a nice orange). This guy has always had low self esteem. He recently started working out and was startled at the comments he has had on the size (and power?) of his huge balls.

I really think the comments have given this (very nice) man a shot of self confidence... He has always been very concerned about his 'grower' status (tho once it grows it is a very nice piece of meat).

So in this case the compliments/comments have really helped..

It can be awkward though. I was at the YMCA locker room the other day. (no assumptions, just read) I am naked and this military looking guy is naked. You could tell by the look on his face he was thinking, how come he got all the cock. It was awkward because he had to be sporting the smallest package I'd ever seen on a guy. Pencil thin, an inch if that, and no balls to speak of. He was so small his cock bounced like a door stop spring when he walked.

Gay, straight, male, female, confused, normal, sick or twisted...don't we all revel in the ego boost of being admired? If a man is secure in his own skin and sexuality, who gives a flying fuck where the admiration comes from?

I'm flattered when a dog humps my leg, hahaha.

Seriously though, anyone paying me any sort of compliment about my looks is great. Gay, straight, bi, Martian.......so I agree KinkGuy.

LOL - You're on a roll tonight, KB. You're killing me!

May be it's just an irresistable leg?