brad2002: At 8.5X7, there are definitely guys out there bigger than me, but I'm usually the better hung when i hook up. I enjoy the comments like "nice," or "mmmmmm, it's thick," but I must admit to getting a bigger thrill out of being the one giving those compliments. I'm a size queen and really enjoy a big one, especially when it's bigger than mine. I don't feel insecure at all - I feel like I'm getting a rare treat.