mhk: Well- put Benderten, The most important thing is to take your time. Make a game out of foreplay. If you are really into each other foreplay can be more exciting than the actual act of sex. And she will be very worked up to accept a larger penis. If your woman has a problem with becoming fully lubricated, there are many very good lubes on the market for all types of situations.(latex, water soluble, etc.) Anyway, have fun, be safe, and take your time and everyone will enjoy.